Estelle - posted on 02/15/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )
My husband and i adopted our youngest daughter, but her Biological mom is my step daughter, my husbands daughter. For me its not easy and im very scared, it feels like the BM is looking over my shoulder with everything i do and my husband dont feel that way, how do i make him see how i feel and make him understand how scared i am of his daughter taking the lil one back. he doesnt feel threatened as he is the only father in the house, but to me it feels like there is more than one mother in the house and it is scaring the hell out of me and i get to emotional when i speak to him bout it and sometimes we argue bout it bcoz the BM is his daughter and he believes that she knows whats best for the baby and that she wont take her back when she is done with school and got a job, or is that just part of adopting? How should i handle the situation. I do i convince everyone that i am the best mom for the little one. What should i do. What should i say............ Please anyone advice me as this is eating me!!!