Danielle - posted on 03/07/2009 ( 19 moms have responded )
I am a first time mother to a gorgeous little boy and i understand that people offer their advice for you to get your feet and all... what i don't understand is...The people that say when your baby is crying you are sposed to ignore them for 10 mions! before picking them up n seeing whats wrong..
This i don't understand.. as a mum its my job top protect and take care of my child so why do people give you advice which to me sounds like you are supposed to teach your baby not to cry cause youre not going to listen!? i understand they think its spoiling them but as far as i knew showing a child love and affectuion was not spoiling them...
Does anyone else feel that its not a crime to pick your child up when they scream or am i not understanding the secret rules of motherhood.. i would like to hear everyones opinion.. whether they agree or disagree