Samantha - posted on 04/25/2009 ( 9 moms have responded )
well I have an 18 month old and I planed on when he turned 1 I was going to try and have another. well right after his first birthday me and his father split up because he never helped and said I had it easy just sitting at home on my butt all day taking care of our son but I also started having saver anxiety attacks and he didn't understand so we split up. But then I got with a guy I have known for 4 years and we are very happy together but the problem is I was just diagnosed with cervical cancer and had to have to parts of my cervix removed and they told me if I didnt have kids within 2 years my cervix wouldn't be strong enough to carry a baby more then 3 months and my boyfriend is in collage he is 26 soon to be 27 but he doesn't want a kid yet and wants to wait till he finishes school and that wont be for 2 more years so I will not be able to have kids after that and it sucks I dont know what to do I wish I could have another one I'm hoping they are wrong cause I have a friend that they said the same thing to and 4 years later she had a healthy baby girl. I'm hoping I will be able to have a kid one day.