Cheryl - posted on 09/20/2009 ( 66 moms have responded )
i had a daughter 13 weeks ago, i knew she was going to be born with club feet but such a shock i have had, she had 2 heart defects, truncus arteriosus and a large hole, she had surgery at 4 weeks and thankfully survived as she wouldnt have without it, she has a genetic condition which involves more problems in the future. she is fed with a feeding tube and andhas reflux. i just let her lie in her swing most of the day except to feed and change her. i feel that she is so fragile and i cant get into the way of treating her as i would any other child because im constantly reminded that there are so many problems when i look at her. i dont want to feel like this and it is breaking my heart.