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Lynn - posted on 06/16/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Hello all. I am starting this community to help those mother's out there who are dealing with children with learning disabilites. My oldest daughter and I have been down a long bumpy road. She is 11 now(will be 12 in August) with alot more issues to over come.


The last 4 yrs have been very stressful and continue to be but we have made alot of progress. At age 8(2nd grade) my daughter and I had a life changing experience.


My daughter started pulling her eyelashes out and her whole personality changed. We thought maybe something was wrong with her eyesight. We had vision tested and spent lots of money for vision therapy. Needless to say it didn't help. She started pulling her eyebrows out as well. She was struggling in school. I decided to take her to Sylvan for some tutoring (2yrs worth). More money wasted and it didn't help.


My daughter started having other issues. She started having social issues, autisic signs,anxiety,depression,OCD,trichotillomania(hair pulling) (took her to a phycologist for these diagnosis and put on medication). I felt as if no matter what I tried nothing helped. I felt like I was failing my daughter.


Then finally a light shined down on me. Last summer I was online and came across a website:Barton System by Susan Barton. She was sent from god. She specializes is Dyslexia. There was a list of symptoms and my daughter had everyone of them. I sent off for more information about having my daughter tested for dyslexia. I did some research and found a very loving,dedicated lady in Columbus who tested my daughter. It was a 4 hour test!! We'll as I kind of already felt in my heart, my daughter was moderate to severely dyslexic.


This wonderful woman went above and beyond her job to tell me what to do to help my daughter and how to make the public school system give my daughter the accomodations she needed. So as of the beginning of this school year we have been doing some of the things my daughter needs(which included driving to Richmond,IN twice a week) and it has helped. She actually is doing better. We still have a long road ahead of us,but at least we are seeing results. The thing with dyslexia is that it'll never go away.


I have decided to take classes on the program(LiPS) that my daughter is currently on so that I can tutor her. I will then become certified to tutor the Barton System which is the next program that my daughter needs. I want to help my daughter and other children with dyslexia. I feel that God has sent me down this road.


My daughter will be in the 6th grade this next school year and I am so proud of all her hard work.

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Tracy-leigh - posted on 07/17/2009

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hi lynn, my name is tracy and i too have a daughter who is eleven your story is pretty much the same as ours only tehnika wasnt pulling out her hair but it was about the 2nd grade when she started to change. It was about then that i had a stroke so i was unable to deal with it as i had to relearn to read and write before i could help her. And just when u thought things couldnt get much worse they closed down her school so she lost her friends and her support network and as u would know these kids dont deal with change very well. I have felt the frustrations u have felt because ppl look at u like u dont know your own child and everyone else knows what is best for them. Ive learnt that my neeky doesnt learn the same way as other kids i havent quite worked out how she sees things but i do know its not the same as we do, I dont stress too much anymore because she can feel it i try to focus on the positives rather than the negatives she may not be the best reader but she can kick a footy as well if not better then any boy and she can beat most men at pool on a full size pool table and she is happy with this, she just wants to be good at something and schoolwork is not what she is best at. She still gives one hundred per cent in class and she is now wearing coloured lenses and she says they are helping but things will change as she gets closer to high school. Her confidence has lifted since she has had her lenses and she is more like her old self, she smiles a lot more now that is good.