Melody - posted on 12/27/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )
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So . . . how is everyone adjusting to the refilled empty nest? Even if only for a bit. I thought I was all set! Then I had to remember a house full of dirty dishes and noise 24/7. Love having the kids home, but I just forgot how different life really is with them out of the house. It does take a little time to re-adjust again.
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Robertine - posted on 01/21/2010
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I'm a single mom of three. They are ages 23, 22, and 19. My 23 year old daughter left home at the age of 18 and informed us that she was going to live with her now husband. He was in the military. The plan was for her to go to college. My oldest son age 22 left home at 18 and went to college in Chicago. Then Mr. 19 is still at home but he is currently going to a local college here in town. I haven't quite experienced the empty nest syndrome. Sometime when my youngest is not home, I do enjoy the quiet time. I enjoy reading and listening to music.But I have discovered that my life isn't over when all of my kids are out of the house. I do admit that letting go will be hard to do.
Connie - posted on 01/20/2010
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And then it takes time to adjust to them being gone again.
Carolyn - posted on 01/18/2010
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I am recently with a empty nest as well. One child married, for 5 1/2 yrs and expecting their first child. The other just moved out before X-Mas and I have felt a little alone. Quiet is good, but only for a while. I miss all the noise that filled the house and knowing that they were both OK. It sure is different, when you have to call to check if they are OK. Then feel bad and relieved when you do. Mixed emotions and miss being that person they lean on for stability. There is comfort in knowing that after the phone call and you know they are fine. That you can move on to other interest and start something new for yourself. I guess some people are right. Once a mother always a worry wort? But, in a loving way. I am supportive in both of them and Love them. Will stand beside them through it all. That's what moms do. Best of luck to others like me.
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