Fanta - posted on 06/09/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )
Hey everyone my name is Fanta Smith. I have been with my husband for 8 years and only married for 6 months going on 7. My child is only 4 months old and since having him it seems like my eyes have opened up to alot of the issues that my husband and I have. I feel like the only reason why he married me is because I was having his child. He has told me as such and also said that reason why he took so long to propose to me is because he did not want to feel pressured and did not want to give in to his mother. He does not do anything around the house or help with the baby at all. I feel like I have to do everything around the house and do everything for my son and all he wants to do is hold my son and chill with his friends and play video games. We are going to counseling but I don't think that he takes it seriously at all. Every thing that I do or say is a complete joke and he never cares about my feelings on anything. He never takes me anywhere and we don't do anything as couple. He has said that he is okay with me leaving and taking my son to another state to live as long as he has peace. I don't know how much I still love him but I feel like I am going to leave at the end of the summer to give the counseling a try but my question is should I leave earlier?