Jenny - posted on 11/09/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )
well me and my husband have been married for 3 years and been together for 14 years and we have 4 kids together but my problem is that when i'am home we do nothing together and when we aren't together he is the same way don't won't to help with the kids and or around the house i'am stuck doing it all and i'am tried of it doing all of that then going to work and coming home to a dirty house it's just upsets me and he don't no why then he ownly noices me when he is in the mood and that gets oldi'am stressed and hurt about all of it and all he says is that he will change and he does for a few days and he is right back to the same thing all over again! and i'am tried of trying to whole a marriage together by my self and it's not working at all! feel free to help in anyway you can thanks! then he likes to get upset for dum things and when does he stomps his feet and throws stuff like a big baby and he don't care if are kids see him act like that because thats how he was raised his dad is the same way with his mother but he gets upset when he treats his mom that way but its ok for him to treat me like that what do do i feel that i' love him but i'am not in love with him like we were when we first mean't and he told me we need the friendship back and i toldly agree with him but how do you fix that after the way thing are now and the way i am feeling about him?