Madline - posted on 05/14/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
After 14 and 1/2 years of marriage and six of his affairs, I have run out of tears and have walked out the door. We have 2 children. I tried to get husband out of the house in Nov. 2011 but it broke my kid's hearts and they wanted him back home. I was forced to try again because of the pain I wanted to spare my daughter (10 years) and son (14 years). I have known of his affairs for the past 7 years, he knew that I didn't believe in divorce so he kept up his affairs with 6 women that I knew of. The breaking point for me is one more email that he sent professing his love and promise to drop everything for her (his girlfriend) at a her becking call. The problem is he used the children and my beliefs for leverage. He is a good dad and the kids are close to him. He is not a drinker and is very involved in their everyday lives. The only problem is he has affair after affair while flaunting it in my face by leaving his email open. I walked away yesterday with nothing. I am not going back. Maybe he is the better parent and better everything. I am broken and poured out. Empty. I have nothing more to offer anyone in life...