Angie - posted on 05/12/2011 ( 7 moms have responded )
Ok, I've known my husband since we where kids.. been together for 10 years and married almost one... He can be nice and calm.. puts on his happy family face when people are around.
my husband is being extremly hurtfull towards my daughter and I. He is saying hurtfull words saying that I'm lazy, pig, I don't do anything at all threatning to leave, as well calling his own 5 yr old daughter stupied, idiot. (I do get inbetween this but then he starts on me, and threatning to leave,, that it's my fault she's like this yada yada yada...). He can do what he wants when he wants. Me on the other had I have to ask, and usually it's no wait until the kids are in bed.. With our first born he would not absolutly would not take care of her. It was me 100%. I even had to ask my friend to watch her so I could take a shower.. I'm fed up with his attitude and the way he treats the kids.
We have both fulltime day jobs a 5 yr old amazing daughter and a 2 yr old son. As soon as we get home I start supper get the kids fed, clean up, get them ready for bed. By then it's 730/8pm and I still have to do the barn chores.. He picks fights with me and yells at me infront of the kids. I'm at the boiling point.. please anyone has any suggestions.. ..