Sonya - posted on 03/31/2010 ( 6 moms have responded )
OK Here is the question... Is it ok for a man (married) to text another girl that he has only known for about 1 semester of school, I have never met her, and just now heard about her. I knew he went to school with a Taylor but assumed it was a boy. Anyways, they were texting back and forth like 20 times yesterday because she is in need of a new apartment. He recommened she live where we live blah blah blah (and texted her while driving but if I text him he tells me he got the text and then started to drive and couldn't reply to me. The main question is... I never go through his phone but he had been texting ALL day. I noticed they were to and from her (she is also 19 and he is 39. I am 36. In the last text he said he loved her! I didn't bring it up but he knew what I was talking about and I asked him if he thought it was ok if I told another guy from school that I love him and he said of course it was fine. He trusted me and there was nothing wrong with loving your friends. I still never told him why I wanted to know but he make a big loud deal about it and laughed at me because I thought that would be inapporpriate. I need opinions that are not biased so I know what to do. Right now I am really hurt. Our marriage is rocky and this really scares me. I know he cheated on his ex with a girl from work in him and his wifes bed! Please give me your opinions either here or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. thank you sooo much!