Jessica - posted on 06/24/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )
My boyfriend of 2.5years and I have a 6 month old son. This year on memorial day he told me he cheated on me with one night stand total stranger last year on memorial day and has a child with her. The child is bout 4 months old now. She waited a year to say anything because she didn't even know his name nor did he know hers or anything bout her. It is confirmed his child. She out of luck went to the same camp site as last year that they had sex at and found him there to tell him. She also had to do paternity test on about 3 or 4 different guys before my bf...They both blame it on drinking. My bf didn't even want our child when I told him I was pregnant and told me to get a abortion but I didn't and never would have....I was going to just raise my son on my own...but he slept with a total stranger without a condom! :( breaks my heart! He wants to work things out, but how? I love him so so much but being involved with the other child he is also going to have something to do with her and it hurts. I know I shouldn't just be mad at her because she probably didn't know he had a pregnant gf, but I am mad and hurt by both of them....she apparently knew it was his kid by her ovulation day is what she told my bf...and to me it sounds like she was trying to get pregnant. She was 20 at the time...she is now 21...my bf is 29, and I am 26...i feel like he ruined things for our future....I want to just leave and not deal with the mess, but I want to do what's best for my son....I'm no longer angry just really badly hurt.....