Buffie - posted on 05/13/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )
A very dear friend of mine told me that I need to find a support group, be it online or otherwise, for people going thru a divorce. I'm hoping to maybe find some of that here.
My marriage was never one of those picture perfect ones like on leave it to beaver, more like Roseanne lol, but things really went south last July when he just went nuts. I have never seen him that mad before and it was over nothing, just the kids being like every other child on the planet and bickering.
I have done the state mandated parenting class, required to get divorced and after...well I feel even more like I am in a hopeless situation. The teacher has been in the business of shrinking heads for 32 years and even he couldn't think of anything to say to help.
I mean, I always knew that he had some problems and was self centered, I just didn't think that he would ever hurt the kids. Then he threw our little girl down the hallway and threatened to kick our little boy in the nuts. Fuzzy only wanted to spend some time with daddy. He's very controlling, even now, sending me letters, telling me how to run MY house.
I really don't know what to do and feel like just giving up. Any help is appriciated.