Jerrie - posted on 03/26/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )
Ok i been married to my husband for about 4 years now and we been together for about 5 years. We have 2 kids together. At the begging of our relation ship it was more like a fairy tale. everything about him was just perfect. then we got married we lost our first pregnancy after trying for 6 month to conceived. he was by my side through the whole thing. 3 months late i found out i was pregnant for our daughter. I was put on bed rest for the fist 3 months of my pregnancy. around months 5-6 i found out he was messing around with his ex again. we had talked and worked things out. the night i went in to have our daughter he was more worried about everyone else tht was there more then me. he thought me being in pain was funny because his brother was there and thought it was funny. as it got closer for her to come out he started to straighen up and stick by my side. after have our daughter he was so helpful. always wanted to feed her or change her and hold her. My lil girl was 4 months old when i became pregnant for my son. The first 12 weeks was rough on me so he steped in with the dirty diaper duty. he went back to work and my dad help out a lot. i was catching up on some much needed sleep. right around the time i was 3 or 4 months pregnant my daughter was put into the hospital with a life threating flesh eating disease call MARSA. My husband ended up leaving to go meet his ex girl friend and they ended up making out and he bought her some cigs. To keep my family from falling apart we talked it out and i stayed with him. We are now in our own home with our own little family and he got a old job bck. He leaves for work before anyone is up and he gets home late. When he gets home he doesnt say one word to me and jump on the computer and starts looking up stupid things. I get no help from him around the house any more. I gotta do everything and im suppose to start school april 18, i tried to talk to him about more help but for some reason the way he was raised up the male only job in a marriage is to work. so i gotta clean the house, do yard work, take out trash, wash clothes, dry, fold, and put them up, i take care of the pet we got, cook, and take care of the kids. I am so stress and just don't know what to do any more.