Kelly - posted on 07/06/2012 ( 14 moms have responded )
I am really struggling with what to do in my relationship. I love my husband more than anything. Please, everyone remember that. I just feel so hopeless in our relationship at times. He is a very strong willed man and everything is his way or no way. He tells that I can f*** anything up, tells me I talk like an idiot, tells me I am stupid and so forth. I have had a rough year. I accidentally dropped the laptop and broke it, had a client steal my camera and lost my cell phone, so I guess that i can see why he may feel that way, but it still hurts so much to have the person who promised to love and cherish me until death do us part put me down that way. He feels that I cannot go on vacation or take my children on day trips because we dont have the money to do so. However, if he goes out and works extra he said that he can spend that money on whatever he wants because he worked the extra. I told him that I dont have the luxury of being able to get a second job, because I have to be home to take care of the kids. He tells me that I am the one who wanted them. He calls my five year old son an a** hole and says that he is a f*** up. he teases him because he still wets the bed. What do I do??