Kimberly - posted on 07/18/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )
My husband just got back from being deployed and before he left he said he wanted a divorce. He said he was done with me and our 5 year old son. While he was gone i found out that he was talking to some other girl about them living together and them wanting to get married and having kids together. He called me a few months after he left for deployment and told me about the girl and apologized and wanted to make things work between us. He said he was wrong and he knows he hurt me.He told me he said the things he did because he was scared about going to the place they were sending him. He is back now and things are good. We are talking more and working through our stuff but he wants another child. I want another baby eventually but i dont know if after everything with an almost divorce that me getting pregnant would be a good idea right now.