Good Day! - posted on 07/08/2010 ( 6 moms have responded )
My husband and my best friends are separated and thinking about filing. They have 3 children ages 4 and under. These are the friends whose wedding Jason and I met in. I was a bridesmaid, he was a groomsmen and we walked together. Needless to say, we are both heartbroken, shocked and deeply saddened over the whole ordeal.
I won't get into the specifics, but the fault is solely his. She was just as shocked as the rest of us, and actually wants to work it out and stay in the marriage. But he does not. So she took the kids and moved four hours away to be with her parents.
I have not seen her or spoken to her (other than through text) since it all went down. I feel like a horrible friend, because I want to call or write, but don't know what to say. I can't put it off any longer and made it my goal to have a letter written and in the mail by this weekend. But what do I say? What would you say? What would comfort you in this situation? What would you want and need to hear?
I'm just at a total loss.