Barb - posted on 12/25/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )
I LOOVEE this man, i really do, but sometimes as i lay there watching him sleep it's a debate on if i'm going to make him breakfast or bash his face in with a baseball bat. It's been 17 years so i guess.. Waffles anyone?
He does this thing where he hints around at stuff and then gets mad at me when i don't get what he's hinting about. We've been together long enough where he should know if he wants me to do something or understand something just fricken SAY IT!
Here is an example a conversation.
"What time is it, girlie?" Him
"8:20, why?" me
"I don't know about you, but i'm about ready for bed" him
"nope, i'm ok" me
we watch tv for another half an hour
"that bed sure is looking good, i'm thinking about crawling into it" him
we watch tv for another 15 to 20 minutes
"I think it's about bedtime" Him
"ok honey, goodnight" me
He sits there for another 10 to 15 minutes
"girlie?! aren't you about ready for bed? i've asked 3 times now!" Him
No! no you haven't! you have HINTED 3 times that YOU would like to go to bed. you want to go to bed, go to bed! i'm too fricken sick to play hide the damn pickle, just go to bed if you want to go!
So are you a hinter? or are you married to one? Why can't the person just come out and SAY IT! Wouldn't that make life so much easier?