Gena - posted on 04/17/2010 ( 43 moms have responded )
I have not had ANY sex drive in the past 10 years. I noticed it declined after birth of 1st child 17 yrs ago, but did not lose it totally until about 10 years ago. Had partial hysterectomy at age 34. Still have ovaries & do not take hormones. My husband is very loving :& understanding thank goodness. We have not had sexual relations in over a year now. That is the longest we have ever gone. I have ALWAYS been the initiator but just don't have any desire anymore. I feel as though I could go rest of my life without it. My husband does not pressure me or ask & get denied. He has never cheated on me & I know he never will. He is a godly man and the best father & husband u could ask for. I feel so guilty sometimes but I am not going to be intimate when I don''t feel like it because then it feels as though I am lying to my husband & myself. I have talked w/doctors & they are of no help at all. Just wondered if anyone else suffers from lack of sex drive as I do. Or if anyone has ideas or knows a way to get back those "butterflies"!!