having baby over 40
Sandi - posted on 11/21/2009
I'd rather have full hands than empty arms. I had my twins at 36 and my last baby at 41 - I cried for 18 years that I didn't have kids, but since having them, I'm so very grateful to God for having me wait until I could handle them! I would not have been a good mama when I was young - I'm NOT saying young women can't be good mamas (my sister had her first child at 18 and she is the most awesome mama I know). I am saying I (as in ME ME ME ME ME) would not have been a good mama. Too shy, too scared of life, too self centered, too everything I didn't need to be. Yay for us!
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