I'm over 40 and pregnant!!!!

Deborah May - posted on 05/18/2013

hi my name is debbie i have 9 children an just found out im expecting number 10 and i just turned 40yr this month im worried ? what are the risk

Chana - posted on 04/10/2013

Kerry,
I am right with you. This was fnny to me! I could have written this post! I got married, first time at 39 had my first at 41 second at 42 both healthy and full term. I also refused the testing that the push for "advanced maternal age" in our mind it didn't matter, they were conceived in love and were loved from day one regardless. I have no older children either. I know I would not have been as good of a parent at a younger age. The hardest thing for me was the first time I someone thought I was Grandma. Now I just do't respond to it.

Kerry - posted on 04/09/2013

Hi, I got married (for the first and only time) when I was 38. I brought my first daughter home from the hospital on my 39th birthday (she is about to turn four) and I had my second daughter when I was 41 (she is 16 months old). My 43rd birthday is next week. I don't have any older children. To be quite honest, I don't think I would have been near as good a parent as I am if I had had children when I was younger. Congratulations on your pregnancy! Best wishes!
PS My children were born fine, despite the "dire" warnings of the geneticists and the push to have an ammnio (which I never did). I think they must get a commission on those things.

Katya - posted on 04/07/2013

I had my last daughter at age 42. My middle one graduated from high school the same month of delivery and my oldest was born in 72! Having a child when I was older was a huge blessing. Yes I did worry when I read of the % of babies with struggles such as Down's but Flip those numbers to the positive in your mind. Instead of thinking 10% chance think 90% of having a baby without these struggles. And even if, they are all precious ,beautifully and wonderfully made gifts. Older mom's are more relaxed.They know how fast time slips by,so you walk a bit slower beside your little one, seeing the world slowly through a childs eyes again was amazing for me. I had difficult pregnancies when I was young and old. age made no difference.Take good care of yourself and savor every delightful moment. Its especially fun in public when we were out with our older daughter and were mistaken as the grandparents. We had a lot of laughs and funny situations. Be blessed and congratulations!

Razz - posted on 04/07/2013

Hi Sandra,
Where are you located? I would love to have a support group with women of my age. This is a really confusing time for me though....I'm a high school teacher with a 10 year fiance. We really thought I was going through the "change" for the last year or so. This is a complete suprise for the both of us.

Leah - posted on 04/01/2013

Congrats. I am also pregnant with my 4th and am 40....mine are 10, 6, and 3. My suggestion is to ask for help if you need it! I try to take breaks when I can, and love having a house keeper every other week. I will also ask employees to help load purchases if they are heavy. All this because I'm tired, swollen, and carrying baby very low. I dont know that it has anything to do with age or just having three other kids to take care of, and it's also a challenge to carry baby so low.
Children are worth all the aches and pains....be patient with yourself and your family!

Chana - posted on 04/01/2013

Congrats! I had my first almost 1 month after I turned 41 and my second 4 months shy of 43. I had no complications or problems accept the normal pregnancy problems. Both my girls were full term and healthy. Good Luck Chana

Sandra - posted on 03/26/2013

Hello, my name is Sandra. I'm 42 yrs old,married 9yrs and 12wks pregnant with my second child. My first child is 7yrs old. I have yet to let my family know because I am worried of negative comments, not saying there will be. Just being pregnant right now I'm a bit worried. I've done tests and is waiting for results. I really don't have anyone to talk to as I don't really have close friends at this point in my life. I'm really looking for a support group.

Leslie - posted on 03/24/2013

I had my first baby when I was almost 39 and my second when I was 40. They are 4 days shy of 18 months apart. I nursed my first for 12 months and was pregnant with my second for 3 of those months I caught the first egg with my second (totally was the plan.) I had no trouble conceiving at all. I got pregnant on the first try with my first and well like I said I caught the first egg with my second girl. I nursed my second for 14 and a half months. Other than have gestational diabetes with both they were normal pregnancies.

Nicolle - posted on 03/23/2013

I am 44 years old, I have 12 year old twin daughters, a 2 year old and a 7 month old. I am lucky they are all healthy as can be! I had all the required tests and ultrasounds. I can tell you I was so worried with my last two being in my 40's, but I ate super healthy, did not take any meds of any kind and stayed away from places were people smoked and I do not drink. I'm sure you will have a healthy baby, most women do. Just take care of yourself. If you have already had children when you were younger, you are most likely to have a normal pregnancy later in life according to a study I read conducted in Sweden.

Razz - posted on 03/22/2013

I totally feel you! I live with my fiance. We say we are engaged but have never discussed a date or anything. We have been together over 10 years. We are very comfortable just the way we are and now this....

Razz - posted on 03/22/2013

OMG!!! I just found out for sure last night that I am pregnant at 44. This is completely out of left field for me at this time in my life. I am a full time teacher that loves to spend her summers traveling. I am also a grandmother. I really don't know if I have the energy required to raise another child. My oldest is 26 and married with one son and one on the way and my youngest is 23 and still trying to find herself. What in the world am I going to do!!!!!!

Antoinette - posted on 03/22/2013

HI!!!!!

I'm Antoinette. I am a high school biology/anatomy teacher. My DH is a correctional officer, ex. military. I am new 40 (January). My hubby is 44. We have 3 kids, ages 9, 6, and 8 months....we are newly pregnant again, almost 5 weeks. Due November! Total surprise, but welcomed.

Quiet - posted on 03/19/2013

I am a 41 yr old mother of six..one set of twins...all by my ex husband been with my fiance seven yrs..planned to get married next yr....I have had no symptoms of pregnancy until this wk.but discovered I'm ten weeks already....I am so nervous being this age and now starting over....I'm not sure how he's going to take this news

Eileen - posted on 03/15/2013

Hi,
Congrats. I envy you! I had my first (and only) child when I was 42 so don't worry. You'll do great.

Lin - posted on 03/14/2013

Hi everyone
I am a 50 year old mom with twins. I had a fantastic pregnancy natural birth and my twins and I went home after 3 days in the hospital. They are now 3 and a half years old and all is well. My other children are 30, 28, 26, 24, 22. Good luck anything is possible with God's blessing.

Lucia - posted on 10/12/2012

Congratulations! First let me say that it is ok to be pregnant after age 40. There is no official cut-off date that we all must adhere to! I had my 8th at 40 and my 9th at 44. There were no complications-my body already knew what to do! Don't let anybody tell you that it is strange, wierd or uncommon. It has become more common in the last few years. Eat healthy, walk and keep a positive attitude! You can do it!

Jola - posted on 10/11/2012

Congratulation!!!!

Jola - posted on 10/11/2012

Hi moms!

I'm 41 ( had birthday just yesterday), i have had 4 mc, first one when i was 30 i've lost twins(30 wp), then at 7 weeks when I was 36, and 2 years ago at 17 wp, and last year at 13 wp.

I have one healthy daughter age 23, me and my partner we realy want to have a baby( especially me:))

Just wonder if any of you ladies have had a similiar exerience and finally have a healthy baby.

Kisses and hugs for you all.xxx

Anne - posted on 10/09/2012

I just turned 45 and found out I'm 6 1/2 weeks pregnant. My midwife gave me an ultrasound and we saw a nice strong heartbeat. I'm really excited and nervous. We have been hoping to get pregnant again after last year's missed miscarriage, but we were just winging it. We figured if it's meant to be it will happen. I have a 22 year old daughter and a 16 year old son and this will be my husband's first child. Crossing my fingers this one sticks!

Linda - posted on 08/26/2012

It has kept me younger and busy where the others my age are so ready for retirement and lazy. I dont have time. He is a junior in high school. Its wonderful!!!!!

Linda - posted on 08/26/2012

I am 57 and have a 16 year old son. I have had more patience. I have enjoyed having him around as a single mom as well. It has its downs. Like the kids at school told him he had an old mom! I have been called his grandmother. Because all the other kids have young moms. I have four girls older. Oldest is 34. And i feel i was always so busy working to take care of them to notice a lot. And didn't have half the patience i do now. I had a very healthy pregnancy!

Tracy - posted on 08/23/2012

Relax and enjoy. I had my 4th when I was over 40 (at 41). Don't feel like you have to do all of the extra testing, multiple ultrasounds, genetic tests, etc... They are optional and you are still young. I avoided them as they wouldn't have made a difference to me. I had a healthy, happy, wonderful boy who is now almost 6. Even though complications increase in women over 40, they are still not very likely to happen. Don't worry, enjoy, and take control of your own health and healthcare decisions. Good luck and congratulation! New babies are wonderful!

Ms Chocolate - posted on 08/16/2012

This is very encouraging, I would like to have another baby and everybody tells you how dangerous it is when you are in your 40s ...I am glad I found this website.

Lila - posted on 01/17/2012

Hi Cathleen,

My kids are 27, 25, 9 & almost 5. I was 43 when my daughter was born. We don't refer to her as a "surprise"; after 3 boys, she was a "shock"! I also have a 9 mo old grandson. My husband will be turning 50 this year but is one of those guys who is "well preserved". Congradulations on your newest addition. I don't know how well you feel during pregnancy, but when I was pregnant at 42 I knew my body wouldn't be able to handle it again, so my husband was gracious enough to get a vascectomy before I delivered. I hope your pregnancy and delivery are easy and you have a beautiful, healthy baby and mom.

Robin - posted on 01/17/2012

I was 43 when I had my daughter Carlie. The birth itself I was nervous about. I had the amniocentesis done to make sure my baby was ok. I would have been prepared for any problems then. I know that raising a baby is great. I loved every minute of it. But, what the book leaves out is,mmmm

as you get older you go through changes. It makes you tired more easily. The kids that were babies turn into those hard teenagers. Of coarse we can handle them we have more patients than we use to when we were young. Keep strong and keep up your health. It is so important as they grow up. I had people in my family die. MY son, my father. My mom needed my help. I had a baby to take care of a grandson and a daughter with cancer. It was very difficult.

I had a young son, a two year old daughter and my grandson with me. I took my mom to the dollar tree store.

She kept asking how much is this? I kept telling her everything is a dollar mom. Finally, my little girl said to her, na na everything is one dollar. She said back to her in amazement .. everything is a dollar?

I don't know why I was getting annoyed. God sure was teaching me patience. She just couldn't believe everything was one dollar.

When she got to the register she pulled out her change purse with everything she had... She just was not feeling well since my dad died. I think she couldn't think about money or something. Maybe she couldn't count because she was upset inside... I pulled out a 20 and I paid.

All I am saying is that as your parents get older realize they are going to need need need you and before you know it you are going to want to rewind... because they will be gone.

My parents were at my house every single day after my baby was born. I had them over for soup and homemade bread often. They loved there grand babies. It gave them a reason to want to live everyday. '

My dad got to see his great grandson two times before he passed.

I think it is the bitter sweet... I wouldn't trade any moment. i want to rewind my life and do it again!!

I think my babies were the best part of my life..

I don't know where you live but I think my doctor was the best, They know so much now about having a baby when you are older. It was much easier than having the other ones. I was in labor for hours... no lie over a 24 hour day.

All day from 4 in the morning and daytime and back to night before she was born. They give you so much medicine you pass right by the first and second stage. They wake you up when it is time to push.. YOU better be ready for that work out.. He told me you better push or I am grabbing a plunger.. I was like what????? I was pushing.. It was rough and the pain was no different that the other babies. STILL i knew what to expect. I didn't fight it and just went with it.. I knew this too will pass... Then Carlie will be here.. MY diamond in the rough... robin

Darcy - posted on 01/16/2012

This will be SO much fun for your family! It will make you relax more than you can ever know! My mom had her 5th at 42, and it was the best thing she ever did! (And that was back in the early 70's - people thought she was nuts!) She was completely relaxed raising him, and we all thought of him as our baby. He's the greatest man now! Totally together, fun, funny, and very confident. He really kept my parents young. They loved the energy he brought into the house when he was in high school. I'm so happy for you! Take good care of yourself! You need to milk this one!! :-)

Lori - posted on 01/11/2012

Congrats on your pregnancy . I have four Children too. My last one I was age 43. Well I did seem to be more tired with him and I did have some scared moments but he was a healthy 8 lbs 6 oz. boy. He is very much a joy in our lives.My children are now girl-23 , girl-21, girl-17 and my boy is 3. As you can see this was a shock at the time. The advice to you is to not let things get you down and just hang in there. It will be all worth it in the end! Good luck .

Monica - posted on 01/11/2012

I am turning 40 in March and want to have another baby. I have been on the fence for years because of how much a baby/child costs. My other children are 17 and 12 and I know everyone thinks I am crazy, but I have always wanted three and if I dont do it now, I am afraid I will regret it for the rest of my life. What do you think?

Melissa - posted on 02/20/2009

Hi Cathleen - Congrats on your news!  I was 42 when I found out I was having #4  - 2 years ago.  I was shocked for a while.  However, our #4 is the best thing that ever happened to our family!  I can't imagine life w/o him! Your 13 & 9 year olds will be a huge help!  I had 12 & 9 year old boys at the time our son was born & a 5 year old girl - about the same as you.  They all still adore the 2 year old. 

My 4th pregnancy was rough, after the 1st 3 were so easy.  I think it was because my body was that much older.

Good luck & keep smiling!

Kim - posted on 02/20/2009

"AMA" Mommy...advanced maternal age...mommy!  And on one of my ultrasounds, I saw the term "geriatric pregnancy"!!!???  HAHAHAHAHA!!! 

Becky - posted on 02/20/2009

Hi there, congrads..you will be fine..I was 41 when I had my last child and was scared too death..I am 44 now and have 3 other children that are 22, 21, 13 all boys and last one which is 3 now a girl..She will definetly keep me young. Needless to say I am finished. Good luck to you and your husband. God bless you and your family.

Diane - posted on 02/20/2009

Congratulations Cathleen!   I am 44 and mom of boy 15, girll6 and girl 3.  Husband is 51.  Your baby will be fine.  I had a great scare with my last at 40, and was sorry that I did the testing, as it would not have changed my mind to carry to term.  good luck to you!

Brigitte - posted on 02/20/2009

Congratulations!

Mary Jane - posted on 02/19/2009

Hi!!! I was 42 when I got pregnant - first time! I never was nervous, but I'll tell you, I LOVED being an "AMA" mommy :) All the attention, all the sonograms, etc., it was great. The young mommies get maybe one sonogram their entire pregnancy, and I got them every time I went to the doctor, plus I had fetal monitorings (like most AMA's) and that was sonograms at least 2x a week! I remember my perinatologist telling me that I was pretty young on the AMA spectrum, too, and not to sweat it too much! Enjoy every minute of it ... even the bed rest ;)

Judy - posted on 02/19/2009

Congratulations, I am sure all will be ok and it is totally normal to be nervous having a baby in your 40's. I had my daughter when I was forty and I was nervous the whole pregnancy, but she turned out just fine.

Corey - posted on 02/19/2009

Congratulations on your pregnancy!  I had my daughter when I was 39.  I am also a certified doula.  My oldest doula client (so far) was 46.  I would hightly recommend considering the services of of a doula, especially if you have any fear/anxiety surrounding your pregancy and upcoming birth.  Some doulas specialized in supporting "older" moms.  Again, congratulations!

Sandra - posted on 02/18/2009

congratulations!!!! im 41 ,I have a 11 month old,and have to admitt i was very very surprised!!! MY OLDEST IS 20! ...WHAT A GIFT EH? ALL THE BESTXXX

Andrea - posted on 02/18/2009

Quoting Theresa:

I got really upset because I had myself thinking I was 43! I don't know why but for some reason I just had myself convenced that I was 43 now, I figured it up by my birth year and I was really upset because I was going to be 46 and not 44,

That reminds me of when I was in my 20s and on one day at work everyone who didn' t know me asked me how old I was and I gave them the age I believed at the time!  By the end of the day when (as it turned out) the last person to ask me, I told the same age as I'd been telling all day!  But paused and thought ... then corrected myself by saying, "did I just say I'm 19?" They confirmed and I continued, "OMG I'm 23!!"  They of course didn't believe me and thought I was making it up.  When I realized I was older than I was thinking all day that I was it hurt for a bit.  However, it also reminded me that you are as young as you feel and all that day I did feel like I was 19!!  It was nice!  I don't know why it happened but I'm glad it did!

Theresa - posted on 02/14/2009

Quoting Theresa:

Hi Cathleen, first off I just wanted to say that you do not look 42! you look more like your in your 30's and I mean that, I am 43 and I found out that I was pregnant when I was 42 also I was also worried, I was on meds and herbs and I was so worried that I harmed the baby but she was not effected at all and prefectly healthy, I went off alot of what I was taking, I was in denial that I could even be pregnant so I didn't find out until I was in my 6 month, crazy I know but I had taken one test after I was a month late and it was neg. so I refused to take anymore and just figured it was early menaplause, 2 days after I found out she started kicking and I was already showing but I figured that it was holiday weight and was on a diet lol, I had joked and told one friend that I looked pregnant but I knew I wasn't, boy was I ever wrong and so glad I was! I didn't want to take anymore pregnacy test because I have been married for 24 years and after years of trying I never was able to get pregnant, so we were all shocked and blessed, my pregnancy went by so fast finding out that late and the doctors did have me get lots of ultrasounds which they do for people that are our age, I think they just want to make sure that the baby's are o.k. and that everything is going o.k. they enduced me so that I wouldn't go past my due date, I think they do that to everyone in there 40's so be prepared. I had an easy pregnancy but when I had her I had complications due to the cord being wrapped around her neck but she is fine now and I think at any age that is one thing that could happen it just depends on where the cord is when the water breaks. I'm sure you will be fine, congratulations by the way! and good luck I'm sure you will be fine and the baby will be fine, my baby is going to be 9 months the 15th of this month and I would really like to have another one so she isn't an only child, we do have another child he was adopted but he is 22 now and doens't live home he does come home on the weekends.Theresa

I just wanted to correct myself here, I was 44 when I got pregnant and turned 45 after I had her, I was at the hairdresser today and someone was asking how many months I was when I found out I was pregnant, well then I got to thinking about my age and I figured it up and I got really upset because I had myself thinking I was 43! I don't know why but for some reason I just had myself convenced that I was 43 now, I figured it up by my birth year and I was really upset because I was going to be 46 and not 44, I think I may be going crazy lol!! has this happened to anyone else? maybe it's because the baby makes me feel younger I don't know but all I know is for a while I was really upset, I even called my mom and she figured it up and told me that I was going to be 46 my next birthday which is in September anyway so after me being upset I got to thinking back and I do remember now that I did know that I was 45 then I went back to thinking I was 43 again I even have a username on one of the webpages where I pay my bills that has 43 on it maybe that is where I got to thinking I was 43. All I know is that I hope I don't do that again, so I have decided that if I don't get pregnant again by the time Courtney is 1 years old I am going to see if I can get my doctors to give me some clomid I know that there is a chance of having more than one but I don't care I don't have much time. I hope now that you guys don't think I am crazy! I just wanted to share this with you all maybe it will give you alittle laugh. I know I am laughing at myself now I wasn't then but I am now.  I hope you all have a happy Valentine day!

Jennifer - posted on 02/13/2009

Hi, I have 7 children and I am due for my 8th on May 1 which is also my 43rd birthday! Cool birthday present! This is my first one since turning 40, but my 3rd since turning 35. One thing you have to realize is that the higher risk for complications has a lot to do with just the way statistics are stated. When they talk about how many 20yo's have a Down's syndrome, the risk sounds lower because there are MORE 20yo having babies. On the other hand, the risk for Downs, etc. for 40yos is higher because there are FEWER women having babies in their 40's (compared to women of younger child-bearing years. I read that in reality, 80% of all Down's babies are actually born to women in their 20's. I'm not saying there is no risk, only that the risk was always there. I feel like if the Lord wants me to have a baby with health problems, I will be scared to death, but I will love it and do everything I can for it. If I focus on that, then I don't get too worried about it.

Personally, I do not do any testing besides the ultrasound. So far, there has never been an issue. I just had the u/s with this one in December, and everything looked good. I was told by a genetic counselor that women over 35 should NEVER do the AFP. It is very inaccurate once you are over 35yo. Also, the main reason for that test is so you can abort a child you don't want, which I won't do. I also told my dr. that I would only do an amnio if it was a life-saving procedure, and they are fine with that. Most amnios will not change anything to save a baby, but there are times when it does.

So, just enjoy. It is hard work being pregnant over 40, but very much worth it. :-)

Taren - posted on 02/13/2009

Congrats! I had my first & only child, a daughter at 42 years old.She is now 4 years old and she keeps me young & on my toes. The 40's are still young and woman are having children much later now a days. I'm so happy for your husband & you!

Carolyn - posted on 02/13/2009

Quoting Cathleen:

I'm over 40 and pregnant!!!!

Hi Moms! I just found out that I am expecting my fourth child. I am 42 and my husband if 50. I am thrilled. I am also nervous about being my age and complications with the baby, ect. I could use a pep talk! Thanks so much! My name is Cathleen and my other children are girl, 13; boy, 9; and girl, 4. Thanks!

1ST LET ME SAY CONGRATS ON YOUR PREGNANCY ,2ND YOU LOOK IN GOOD SHAPE AND NO ONE WILL SAY YOU ARE IN YOUR 40S,I ALWAYS SAY AGE DOES NOT MAKE A DIFFERENCE

IF YOUR BODY SAYS  YOU NEED TO BE PREGNANT,YOU WILL GET PREGNANT,BECAUSE I KNOW OF MANY COUPLES WHO HAVE NOTHING WRONG WITH THEM,BUT JUST CANNOT GET

PREGNANT.JUST GO FOR IT LIKE IT IS YOUR 1ST TIME AND ALL WILL BE WELL.FEEL HAPPY,BE HAPPY DON'T WORRY.REGARDS CARO.

Eileen - posted on 02/13/2009

lucky you. i had my son when i was 42. i am trying for a second now and am 45. not having much luck but hoping this month is the lucky one! i wish you the best of luck. my son is perfect and a miracle!

Eileen - posted on 02/13/2009

lucky you. i had my son when i was 42. i am trying for a second now and am 45. not having much luck but hoping this month is the lucky one! i wish you the best of luck. my son is perfect and a miracle!

Rhonda - posted on 02/12/2009

Congratulations and enjoy it! I'm 43 and trying to get pregnant again. I have 2 sons from a previous marriage age 20 and 13 and am trying for another. I think my cycles are finally back on track so we'll see what happens in the next few months!

Colleen - posted on 02/12/2009

Hello Cathleen it's not that bad,well its actually wonderful i am 44 had my son 3 years ago and i wouldnt change it for the world! I just took in my grandaughter whom is 11 months old too !But i felt great having my last child in my 40s I had absolutely no complications just take really good care of yourself and it will be fine!Good luck!

Julie - posted on 02/12/2009

Hi Cathleen,

I also had my daughter at 41 almost 10years ago. There are advantages, Dr will not let you go over due date, You don't sweat the same stuff like we all did when we were younger, and our children will keep us young! I'm 50 with a 27 ,24 and 9 yr old. And a grandaughter almost 1yr.old. Best Wishes you look wonderful in your photo!

Theresa - posted on 02/12/2009

Quoting Andrea:

Thank you, Theresa, & congratulations to you as well!  I can only imagine the fear you had due to the meds!  I find 9 months old are lots of fun.  Enjoy!

This is a God ordained pregnancy!  (As I believe all are.)  My last two cycles were late so I just assumed that I was starting menopause and didn't rush to get to a doctor to confirm.  I took a home test that I had sitting around for years that when it showed possitive I didn't fully trust it.  At 10 weeks I finally got confirmation but due to my own denial, I didn't tell my husband or family until the following week. (It was the end of October and I had considered waiting for Thanksgiving!)  My first trimester was almost over so it seems like it's going by quickly.

Just a few weeks ago a teacher in my son's middle school thought I was one of the students!!  I had my coat on so my belly was hidden but I had a backpack on my shoulder while walking through the hall.  :)  I told her the baby is making me feel young again.

I like going for walks but don't really like to do it alone, so I park my car mid to far end of the parking lot (even in this cold) so that I can get some more walking into my day. But I really don't get out much.  I prefer walking outside but I may start going to the mall just to walk.  Then I can finally get the pretzel I've been craving for months (hehehe). 

My boys have had their own rooms for the past two years (since we moved here).  Now they have to go back to sharing one.  Though they like the company of sleeping in the same room, as for all their 'stuff' they need their own space.

Your welcome, and Thank you! yes I was afraid but I was told that she would be fine and that the meds I was on would not hurt her and they didn't, luckly I went on some herbs that helped me go off the meds that would have hurt her, and I was able to continue taking them because the doctor said they had only good things in them that wouldn't hurt her, She turned out perfectly healthy and I am so thankful for that! I did worry some about DS but after the altrasound they said that she looked good so I didn't worry anymore. They had me take so many ultrasounds I think like one a month and then at the end it was even more to make sure she was o.k. They also had me take one of those 3d ultra sounds they were neat! we found out on our first one that she was a girl. We never did get one of those test that they test the A fluid I guess I was past that when I found out and so they never asked me to I wouldn't have anyway my husband was worried about that because he said that someone he worked with's girlfriend had that done and she lost her baby because of it so he was telling me not to let them take that test but he didn't have to worry I wouldn't have taken it anyway.

Yes she is alot of fun she will be 9 months 15th of this month and she is all over the place she is funny she rolls everywhere hasn't started to crawl yet but is trying to get up on her hands and knees.

That's the same thing I thought but I was in denial longer, we only had 3 months to prepare but we got it all done.

That would have made me feel good too, I think they do keep you young and I would have never thought I would have a baby at all, specially in my 40's but boy am I glad I did.

That's good I used my treadmill but got lazy at the end and I ended up gaining sometime like almost 60 pounds, so keep up the good work!

I'm sure the boys will be happy to share again just knowing that they will have another baby in the family. We had made our spare room into a exercise room right before we found out, then had to change it to a baby room it still has the treadmill in it but that won't come out of there until she is old enough to start bothering it. We have another room but it's our son's he still comes home on the weekends he lives at his uncles, we are hoping to get him in a place of his own when that happens his room will be our workout room or baby room what ever comes first.

Theresa

Lori - posted on 02/12/2009

Hi Just wanted to congratulate you . I can tell you I know how you are feeling,I too found out I was going to have a baby at age 42. He was baby number 4. I have 3 girls ages 21,19 and 14 yrs old. So this was a shock at first . I was on some meds that would have hurt my baby, but I throught I was having a kidney stone, and the hospital found out that I was pregnant at 1 week along. can you believe that? anyway I was tried all the time with him and we had some scares along the way but he is healthy and the biggest blessing I could have had. Along the way some people can be mean to you , just don't pay them any mind. This will be a blessing,I just know. Do only the test you are comfortable with and enjoy this time in your life.By the way I turn 43 before I had him. Good luck and if you need to talk to me about anything feel free, because my baby will be 1 on March 9th.so I still remember it.