Karen - posted on 03/03/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
I have 3 kids. Oldest son 35, daughter 20, then the youngest just turned 14.
Older two are awsome! Youngest is.. well.. er.. um.. being a problem.
At wits end. Won't go to counseling, although I go to family counseling every week alone.
Won't go to school. Won't sleep at night. Failing all grades. Has no goals. Won't even talk
about it. Has no drive. Just blahhh.
He's had a real rough few years. First he lost his dad when he was 9. bad situation. His father had cancer of the sinus. It made him abusive before we found out what was going on. The state had stepped in and took away visitation. Then when we found out May 1st. We tried to get then both in
to talk it through with supervision. His dad passed July 31st. Refusing to see his only son, even on his last few days.
Our house burned to the ground last Dec 5th. Moved to another town where his Grandmother lives.
If he won't go to counseling, won't talk. What can I do?!
Any advice welcome.