Connie - posted on 09/15/2010 ( 12 moms have responded )
My step son to be (his dad & I have been engaged almost a yr) lives with us. He is 11. He is the most loving kid you could meet. His mom couldn't get him to school, never spent time with him while at home and tells him I stole his dad from her. (we meet a yr after they divorced) I love Nick like I gave birth to him but it hurts my heart when he ask me does he have to go to his moms for the weekend. He loves her and I would never let him say bad about her, She just doesn't care what he wants or needs. She bad mouths me, his dad, my kids that he loves who are all older (24,21,19) They take him with them everywhere. How do I deal with a woman who cuts herself with him around, is addicted to prescription drugs & refuses to be productive in society? Any advice is welcome. I love this kid and would like to see him grow up with 2 positive female roles in his life..