Cynthia - posted on 02/03/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )
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I have two of my three that the minute anything goes on they don't agree with they will banish you for life. They quickly forget and accuse you of all sorts of things such as, never being there (because you had to work). You never do anything for them and have never helped them a day in their lives. If this is familar please let me know that I am not the only one.
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Peggy - posted on 02/04/2010
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I guess that is what some of our children do. I don't believe they mean what they say although I used to but as you grow older and believe me wiser you realize that its their way of really crying out to be noticed.
My second to eldest daughter was like that, everything that went wrong in her life she blamed me. When she fell pregnant at the age of 15yrs it was my fault because I never told her about the birds and the bees but at the time she told everybody it was a planned pregnancy. When she is bitchy she takes after me. When her life falls apart then shes to much like me.
I just found out recently that she went to see a psycologist and the only person she kept on talking about was me, the psycologist asked her why always you mother and she said that the only thing shes ever wanted was to have my approval and to be like me. She felt I was'nt giving her enough attenion.
There are still many issues between us but I've learnt to live with it what I do tell her is that I am her Mother and she is'nt mine. I don't let my children minipulate me anymore so they know exactly where they stand with me.
At the end of the day, our chicks will most certainly come home to roost and we will always be there for them.
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