Bettie - posted on 02/23/2011 ( 29 moms have responded )
My almost 15 year old step-daughter has decided she doesn't want to see me or talk to me without any definite time line. Without any reason or contact to discuss why, but just sent a message on the computer to her dad. Which is a problem with every other weekend visits (last weekend she decided she didn't want to visit) So I want to know who or how anyone else has dealt with an issue like this. My husband (her dad) thinks she is now old enough to make her own decisions but I believe this isn't the kind of decision a child should make. Yes I say child as this is her attitude lately and she had been diagnosed at age 5 with ODD, Oppositional Defiant Disorder.