why do mom's have babies if they are not going to take care of them right?

Charlene - posted on 12/17/2009

Post a reply!I think it depends on the situation and it is not for any one to judge except the bigger power..

If u want to hve more than go ahead no one will stop u..

now adays it is the younger girl or women that have children out of wed lock think haveing babies being on government help is the way out of working ??

I always ask that question when my 30 yr old daughters who are not married decided to have children and rather party than think of there children actually the one daughter does and the older daugther decided to walk out of her 13 yr marriage left a autisic son and teen daughter with dad thought the grass was greener on the other side with that she ended up with an illegal immigrant got pregnant twice what is that about...??

Marsha - posted on 12/17/2009

I am in the same situation. My daughter had a child when she was 18 and abandoned him after 3 months. He has been with my husband and I since the day he was born and she just walked out on him and has never looked back. She has two other children who she loves and takes care of, but not this one. Someday she will have to explain to this poor little one why she didn't want him. On a good note, he is the love of our lives! We love him so very much and I think he keeps us young. I am in my mid 40's and never thought I'd be raising a grandchild at this age, but sometimes god gives us challenges that only he knows we can handle. Best of luck to you.

Michelle - posted on 12/17/2009

Some are struggling, some can't cope, some are selfish. The children are best to be left in good home where new parents or foster parents can take great care and give them love.So there is no explaination at all.

Deborah - posted on 12/16/2009

I don't think anyone can explain. I feel that there are some of us that will never be able to comprehend these actions no matter how hard we struggle to. It is unthinkable and unimaginable. To hear of others not wanting their children when there are so many who would cherish a child and for whatever reason do not have any...it's frustrating and maddening. I would not try to understand becasue it sounds like that you will never be able to....it's not who you are. And yes, it does seem so unfair!

Toni - posted on 12/15/2009

There is no explanation. My 8yo is adopted because her bio mom abandoned her at my house when she was three months old. She has had several kids some have lived some have not. All born drug addicted. She last I knew didn't have custody of any. The state won't force her to be sterilized either they said she has the right to has many kids as she wants.