Mel - posted on 08/04/2009 ( 14 moms have responded )
my fiance and I have a sort of love hate relationship sometimes. he is great with helping out with the baby and cleaning. in the morning up early before work and does the dishes, cleans up the kitchen lets the cat out etc. this morning he went to work late and he got the baby up and had her break fast made before i even got out of bed. he does all weekend feeds so i can sleep in, baths the baby and puts her to bed and makes her dinner every night, and tops up her feed at midnight every night (shes tube fed). i have never had to do it before.
But the annoying things are that he never gets around to things i ask him to do. i ask him to get my dog a hair cut because i dont drive and i have the baby to look after, i ask him to fix the cot so that i can slide the side down, fix the washing machine, get a lock for his cupboard under the fish tank so brianna doesnt keep pulling the chemicals out and every single ting i ask him it is months of asking every day before its done. i even have had family ticked off at me for him not doing things hes said he will do.
when we fight we insult each other alot, he calls me things like a trashy whore, says alot of things about my mother and my upbringing, makes jokes up previous gfs around others which upsets me a little, i insult him to ive called him trash from a bad area, ive told him he has terrible parents who do nothing, that hes a bad father and not a caring partner.
sometimes hes soo anoying and i really just want some affection or him to come to bed with me and not play his computer games all night! thoughts?