Deanna - posted on 02/08/2009 ( 10 moms have responded )
My best friend recently lost her four year old daughter (who is only 7 months younger than my own daughter). It has been hard for her. I just know that I need to be ther for her the best way I can. We live almost 400 miles apart. We talk as much as we can but I feel terrible when she asks me about my daughter. I feel as if it is unfair I still have my lil girl and she doesn't. I was just wondering if anyone else has had this happen to one of their friends or family members. I have also had a friend who lost her 5 month old 2 months before my due date with my daughter and I also lost my 7 month old niece due to complication of pneumonia and my daughter was at the time 9 months old. I still feel the same way when I see or speak with these woman about our children.