how to get a toddler to speak?

Sarah - posted on 12/29/2009

All babies are different! They all learn in their own way, in their own time so just relax and don't worry! I would say though talk to your child every day and I don't mean the odd word here and there, I mean proper conversations, talk to him like an adult. Your son should look up to you and be inspired by you so they copy you so please don't carry on using silly baby words, use full words and sentences, don't worry if he doesn't respond. Also sing nursery rhymes and read books to him every day and interact with him as much as possible. If he watches tv make sure you only have educational programmes on relevant to his age, I find Cbeebies really good if you are living in the UK. I have that channel on all day when my babies are in the house! My 2 yr old daughter has learned so much from their programmes, shes even learned some basic sign language from Mr Tumble on Something Special! Get him to play with interactive toys, like the ones that talk and teach you numbers and letters and things like that. Also I don't want to worry you but it might help to speak to a doctor or health visitor just in case he has developed a speech problem or has low confidence which I'm sure is not the case but just to be on the safe side. Your son may be laughing in your face because he is nervous or thinks you are telling him off not because he doesn't want to learn. Once a week in a playgroup or nursery might help him to learn from other children and build his confidence and finally but most importantly don't forget PRAISE!!! Lots and lots of praise!! Hope this helps x

Consolata - posted on 12/26/2009

Don't force him; He hears all you say just continue talking to him even if he does not talk back. Also get him into a playgroup where he can interact with other kids, he would be itching to talk once he sees other kids talking. You could also let him watch some interactive kid’s programmes like Barney. My two kids grew up on Barney, singing the songs and picking up words from the various series. Any or all of this will act as stimulants. But rest easy he will talk soon enough.

Jennifer - posted on 12/22/2009

just keep on talking to him every day & don't give up. in no time you will be wishing you had duck tape, lol my 2yr old is a chatterbox. I read to him alot, & having him around other little kids might help too.