Laura - posted on 10/12/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )
My daughter was perfectly fine with doing her pee on the toilet, and still is mostly. She still refuses to poo on the toilet and has a freak out if we sit her on there and she starts to poo.
Recently, she has refused to go potty, even if I bring her in every 15 minutes. Instead, she'll run to her room, pull off her diaper and pee or poo on her bed! If I stick her in underwear instead of pull-ups, she just pees through them. I know she can hold her pee and control when she goes because she wakes up from her naps dry. Worst is she pulls her pjs off (even with a onesie underneath) at night AND her nighttime diaper and pees the bed. She knows when she does it because she cries and goes either "ohno i pee" or "ohno i poo", but still refuses to go on the toilet.
Both myself and my husband are at a loss with what to do. We have a child lock on the outside of her bedroom door but she can still undo it.