my son sees ghosts please help

Helen - posted on 03/14/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )

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my 4 yr old sees ghosts in his room a parachute man dead babies that was buried under the pavement the dead mommy to the poor lil babies an old lady a dog called reef all of which he tells me things in great detail the parachute man is the protector for my lil boy from the evil monsters i thought at first this was his imagination but the things he says ect he has no way of telling me he tells me he is going to get wings soon and leave me and that i am not safe in the house at weekends wen he is with his daddy its so upsetting i dont know wat to do or how to handle it all can any one help please i beg u really am at a dead end :-( things ave recently got worse he locked his sister out side cos they told him to he let our dog out which ran away cos they told him to !!

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Helen - posted on 04/20/2012

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thanks for your reply huni im leaning more towards believing he actually does see ghosts as some things he tells me he wouldnt know for example his daddy isnt quite his daddy he had raised him since 6 weeks old as his real father didnt want anything to do with him poor boy anyway recently my son has told me he needs to go see his father i said who daddy who lives with nannar he was adiment he has a real father who lives far away which is true i heard he moved hours away he also told me his real fathers dad had died i dont know if this is true but how would my son know that his daddy isnt really his daddy and that his biological father really does live far away i have exhausted all possibility on how he may have found out there is very very few people who know my older children dont remember as they were very young them selves and no one who knows would say anything it is not in any way spoken about more so when my other children or my son is within the house so how would he know ??? i am awiating an app with a child physiologist to see what they say however im not sure its all in his head i will let them asses him but the first mention of doping my up with drugs they will be leaving my house thats for sure there is no need for drugs to control this he does hurt my dog tho so not sure if that is something or not but not in a really nasty way he just plays rough is this maybe cos he is a lad my nephew of same age is same with my sisters dog other than that yes he acts out and is naughty at times but being mummy to 4 i dont think his behaviour is anything unusual i found my daughters were the same at this age mainly because they were not satisfied to stay at school just for morning they were eager to go full time which he does in sep i had the idea my self of getting a medium round or something but i dont have money for that kind of thing is it expensive ???? any further help would be great as my other post said i have lots of great support from my fam and friends but no one i know has ever had issues like this so no one can really understand all i want is my lil boy to be happy i love him to bits and this just gets me down at times cos i have no one to talk to and really dont know how to deal with it

Micha'ele - posted on 04/20/2012

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First things first....all children are open to psychic abilities. Some are more sensitive then others. What you need to do is ask yourself if his behavior is that of a child who is showing signs of mental or emotional behavioral issues...does he seem depressed, does he act out, does he have incontrollable tantrums, night terrors, does he act aggressive towards others...I'm not talki g about locking his sister out of the house. I'm talkin about him tryi g to hurt her or anyone or animals. If not then I would recommend you find a good psychic medium in your area, ask them if they can "read" him to find out what's going on. If he is open to seeing spirits HE'S NOT CRAZY! It means he has a special gift and you need to find a way to support him. If he is able to see spirit he needs learn how to turn it off and on and that he has the power to control his surroundings. The parachute man...I would bet is a spirit guide or spirit whom he can. communicate with. I would also recommend you have your house "cleaned" of energies. You can do this by smudging/burning sage. If you don't feel comfortable find someone who will do it for you. I trained with Lisa Williams a medium from england who has a website, her son is gifted too and could help you with your situation and also Doreen Virtue. Doreens written a few books on the situation. They both have websites and both have call in talk shows that you can get assistance by just calling during the times of their shows.
I have to tell you how important it is that you support him and not make him out to feel crazy if this is the case. I just think that if you thought is was completely physiological you would have already contacted a doctor. My intuition tells me that something, some part of you believes that your son has mediumship abilities. Spirits gravitate to whomever they know will help them, especially children. Children are open, trusting and nonjudgmental. But I also don't want to make light of what's going on in that it sounds as though your house is also a very active place energetically. Has anyone ever passed away in the home. Do you know the history of the house and property you live on? If you feel your son has issues mentally or that he could potentially harm himself or someone/something else then by all means contact your physician. Either way you have some work to do. I have had the ability to communicate with spirit and channel info about folks since as far back as I can remember. I was lucky because I had parents who were open to the concept as they both have had their own experiences. But I have also known folks whose kids are gifted and the parents are taking them to psychiatrists and doping them up...guess what their ability will only go dormant only resurface later and the child ends up living their whole life in fear. Just trust your own gut aka mothers intuition and follow it!

Helen - posted on 03/16/2012

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hi hun i made an app for him so awaiting that hopefully they can help ive ponded over everything he watches see hears ect an can think of nothing im preety dam strict with tv ect they only watch wat i say they can ie only Disney an pixar films all suitable for a 4 yr old and to be fair we dont watch a lot of tv i prefer doing other things being outside painting playdough ect although i am mummy to 4 him being the 3rd ive no idea how to handle this ive come across most probs of bein a mummy but not this one do you really think it could be mental health issuses wat kinda thing could cause it nothing major or traumatic has ever happened in his life any help would be so apriciated feel like im on my tod with this i have alot of help and support but none of them have inccured probs like this x

Louise - posted on 03/14/2012

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You need help and fast. Make an appointment at the doctors if your son is hearing voices in his head then he could be (not saying he is) but could be bi-polar. This is serious if he is acting on what he is being told.Get him checked out because he could do something serious to your daughter.



Lots of things can spark an episode like this so make that phone call today and ask for help. There is nothing to be embarrassed about these days with mental health issues you just need to get the right treatment and help. What you have writen is not normal for a small child. Lots of children have imaginary friends but they do not act out what they tell them to do and normally they are a child themselves that is alive not dead. Has your child been exposed to something on the tv that has scared him. It could be so many things you really do need some professional help here.



Let me know how you get on this is a very interesting case. xx

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Bridget Maruuen - posted on 05/17/2013

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the only way to stop this is to ather A take him to therapy or B take him to a mental hospital

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