Meghan - posted on 08/04/2010 ( 42 moms have responded )
So I'm engaged and due in 6 more weeks, and my fiancee is the most wonderful man ever, only problem is he has a 3 and half year old..........
Thankfully there is no baby mama drama, just drama with his daughter. He gets her every other weekend, and she is the biggest brat I have ever seen, and everyone in his family caters to her every whim and need, the child is so spoiled she's not even potty trained because she likes wearing diapers!!! I feel bad for her sometimes bc her mom is just a whore who goes out and parties all the time and passes her off to family members and talks mean about her so obviously she doesn't have a good home life. This kid has no social skills whatsoever, throws temper tantrums if she doesn't get what she wants, basically is a major diva. Now, I was no angel either at that age, but I sure got my butt swatted if I told my parents no or had the toy/food, whatever it was taken away if I threw tantrum.
I guess I don't know what to do, I've talked to my fiancee about her behaviour asking what are you going to do is she behaves that way in front of our son, bc I will not tolerate that kind of behaviour from my child, and all he said was I'm sure a spanking will set him straight! So he will spank his son for imitating the bad behaviour of his older sister but he has never spanked his daughter!!!
I have tried being friends with this little girl, but honestly, I can't stand to even look at her now, especially since she is the spitting image of her mom, and has the same attitude, it just grinds on me. And whenever she acts up in front of me she will look directly at me like what are you gonna do about it bitch???
Any suggestions on how to handle my feelings or this situation????