Stephanie - posted on 06/21/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )
Ok mom's i have a lot of baby daddy issues going on. Me and my son's father split up almost 3 years ago when i was pregnant. My son's father was abusive towards me, i couldn't tell you how many times cops were called because of him. It is a on going battle with my son's father. He didn't pay child support for a year, worked underneath the tables for cash. Then income tax came around and he decided to go ahead and pay his back child support. Well it didn't last long until he was behind again. That's not even an issue i dont depend on the child support money. My husband has been there for my son since he was 13 months old, my son is about to be 3 in a couple of months. My husband is daddy, not because we forced it but because my son knows who takes care of him. Besides the point. My kids "father" went missing a couple of months ago for a week straight on a drug bendge with his girlfriend then he lost his job. A month later him and his gf got into a fight she stabbed him at his OWN house. He had to be life flighted to the hospital. Spent a week in ICU. He never ONCE bothered to get in contact with me those 2 months. Never called and asked about my son or nothing. Now he is making my life a living hell. He don't call on the days he supposed to see my son but yet he calls and emails every single day besides saturday (the day he is supposed to do visit). Accuses me of not letting him see my son because i wont respond to his harassing emails and phone calls . He thinks he is going to take my son to his house. I fear for my son's danger. My son doesn't know who his "father" is, he knows who his daddy is, the man that is there every day the man that takes care of him and provides for him. My son's "father" Slanders me all over face book, even started me a page.... wasn't he sweet. https://www.facebook.com/AccusedDeadbeatOrVengefulMother What do ya'll think would be the best situation to do as the moment...