Ken Mehlman: I'm 'At Peace' With Myself, There's 'Absolutely' Room For Gays In The GOP

Sara - posted on 08/26/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )

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In an interview with the Huffington Post on Wednesday night, former Republican National Committee Chairman Ken Mehlman -- who announced earlier Wednesday that he is gay and intends to join the fight for marriage equality in California -- said he wishes he had come out while he was the face of a historically anti-gay Republican Party platform.

Mehlman acknowledged regret that he remained closeted when he led the RNC between 2005 and 2007 -- a time when, as The Atlantic's Marc Ambinder noted, it was "stepping up its anti-gay activities."

"The reason I wish that I had been in a different place then, as I am now, is I know the personal benefit of being comfortable with, and at peace with, an important part of your life," Mehlman said. "Until you get there, it's much harder. I'm very glad to be there."

The former chairman argued that he tried hard to "expand the party and build the party," but said he wished he had done more for gay rights. Still, he said, "[You] can't look back, you've got to look forward."

In the interview, Mehlman was reluctant to address current political subjects, declining to comment on President Obama's progress on LGBT issues and the conservative movement's often-offensive rhetoric toward gay men and women. He did, however, say that there is "absolutely" a place for LGBT individuals in the GOP.

"I think the Republican Party is a diverse party with lots of different views, and I think it's a mistake to presume that people who disagree with what I think is the right answer -- which is freedom to marry -- are inherently motivated by divisive instincts," Mehlman said, adding that he thinks conservatives are focusing less on social issues like opposition to LGBT equality and "much more about the size and scope of the government -- spending, deficits, and taxes."

Many high-profile LGBT activists have already embraced Mehlman since his announcement earlier Wednesday. "We hope the fact that Ken Mehlman has reached this level of honesty will now encourage other political leaders to reject divisive anti-gay campaign tactics which, as Mr. Mehlman now admits, are purely cynical attempts to manipulate the American public," Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund President and CEO Chuck Wolfe said in a public statement. Openly gay Democratic strategist Steve Elmendorf told the Huffington Post that it was "great for the community to get new converts" because "until we get 51 percent of the American public supporting us on these issues, it's really important that we welcome people who want to come help us."

Center for American Progress Senior Vice President Winnie Stachelberg, who is a former Human Rights Campaign executive and longtime friend of Mehlman's, said, "I'm sure there will be plenty of people who will be angry that he came out when he did and after the things that he did, and he probably regrets that more than most people, but I think that having him as part of the team moving forward will only help all of us in this fight."

The impetus for Mehlman's coming-out was a Sept. 22 fundraiser for the American Foundation for Equal Rights, which is fighting for marriage equality in California. Mehlman will co-chair the event with Elmendorf and high-profile Republicans including Steve Schmidt, who managed John McCain's 2008 presidential campaign, and Nicolle Wallace, who advised both McCain and President George W. Bush.


I seriously don't understand how someone who is gay could work for a party that is against gay rights. But, this doesn't surprise me.

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Julie - posted on 08/29/2010

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I don't understand how gays could participate in a religion that specifically tells them they are going to hell for their relationship (Catholic) ... political party is somewhat a long those lines, just less ... eternal. Oh well, for another day.

Anyhow, I think his timing really was bad, but maybe he wasn't really ready to come out yet. Maybe he will still be able to help advance equal rights for all citizens and his Republican friends will remain so and see that "they" are regular people, too.

Also, I think there is a lot to be said about not making political party about one issue. Although, that one issue has got to be harder when it is closer to the core of one's being .... perhaps it is all in how one defines oneself.

Dana - posted on 08/26/2010

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I don't know if I would say that the whole Republican party is against gay rights. I think it's a big issue but, I think that politicians on both sides play it to their advantage to get votes. Really, the Democrats are slacking on gay rights imo.



Btw, I just got back from my friends house, they're both Republican lesbians. I have a lot of respect for them because they don't just vote for a party on one issue. They don't let it define their whole way of thinking when it comes to politics.

Sara - posted on 08/26/2010

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Yeah, it is nice that he came out, but he spent years helping to shape a party that wouldn't accept him had they known he was gay...it just doesn't compute. I understand that there's more to the GOP than just gay rights, but I still just don't get it.

LaCi - posted on 08/26/2010

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One of my lesbian friends is a hardcore republican. I think it has to do with the foundation of the republican party. Being a republican isn't defined by gay rights, that's just the modern perversion of the party. I agree, there is absolutely room for gays in the GOP, if the GOP ever decides it wants to get back on topic and quit bitching about all things sex. I'm glad he came out and said all this.