How long has it been since your Loss?

User - posted on 01/14/2009 ( 28 moms have responded )

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It will be 6 years this year, since we lost our baby son, Nathan.

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Mererii - posted on 06/24/2012

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It has been 8 years in September since we lost our son and 7 years in August since we lost our daughter. Not a day goes by that I don't think about them. We will miss them forever.

Maria - posted on 06/18/2012

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its been 8 years since my daughter died, kirsty. and i can honestly say nothing as changed for me after all this time. the pain is so overpowering. if anyone can give me any advice what so ever it would be greatly appreciated. to make it even harder for me i do not have a faith. many thanks maria xxxxx

Jamie - posted on 07/21/2010

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I lost my first angel 4 1/4 years ago at 18 weeks gest. from an unknown cause and on May 29, 2010 I lost my daughter Sarah at 21 weeks gest due to cord accident. (cord was around her neck 3 times, around torso and right arm and in a "true knot") I have two other children at home that help keep me strong but I miss my babies so much. I have faith in God's grace that we will all see our babies in Heaven again one day when it's time for us to meet them. I am sorry to hear of everyone's losses and God Bless you all.

MICHELLE - posted on 05/31/2010

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I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I WISH I COULD SAY IT GETS EASIER BUT I DONT FEEL LIKE IT DOES. I LOST MY LIT'L BOY JAKE 20 MONTHS AGO. HE WAS 5 1/2 YR'S OLD. MY ONLY CHILD-THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. I HAVE TO BELIEVE WE WILL SEE OUR SWEET PRECIOUS CHILDREN AGAIN SOME DAY....HANG IN THERE, YOU'RE IN MY PRAYERS

Veronica - posted on 05/21/2010

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I lost my daughter angelys on april 12th 2010 of this year...i miss her soo much

Veronica - posted on 05/21/2010

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I lost my daughter angelys on april 12th 2010..its been one month...i miss her soo much..

Olive Joy - posted on 02/28/2010

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I had may 1st miscarriage at 8 weeks gestation in january 2006 and my second miscarriage at 7 weeks gestation in august 2006. My 3rd child, Yojan Gabriel was born very prematurely at 24 weeks and 5 days at January 12, 2010. He weighs 640grams with a length of 28 cms. he was baptized January 17, 2010 at the hospital NICU. He survived for 7 days. He died January 19, 2010. I am really devastated after his death and until now. I really miss my lil boy...

Kerrin - posted on 01/02/2010

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We're just coming up to 1 year since we lost our daughter, Ashley.
5th of Jan is our first anniversary of her birth/passing.

Crystal - posted on 03/08/2009

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Kaitlyn passed away 12 1/2 years ago from Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome... basically meaning the left side of the heart (The most important) didn't fully form while in the womb. She lived for 8 weeks, which was 7 weeks and 6 days longer than the drs expected. I've also suffered from 2 miscarrages (One before and one after Katie), and have 2 surviving children, Chloe (10, heart healthy) and Austin (7 1/2, innocent heart murmur)

Stephanie - posted on 03/07/2009

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I had my first loss at 8wks. in may 2003 due to a blighted ovum. I experiend the loss of my daughter sophia at 16wks. on febuary 24, 2004. I then lost a little boy Conner at 15wks. on June 12, 2005. With the help of blood thinners I was able to have a healthy baby boy Zander on September 29, 2006. I then lost another little boy Xavier at 17wks. on July 25, 2008. I am currently 19wks. pregnant. I am hopefull but scared. I also have two daughters Baylee is 10 and Paige is 7.

RaeJean - posted on 03/06/2009

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We misscarried at 9 weeks July 10, 2007. Our daughter Maladie was born May 21, 2008 at 4:15pm and got her wings at 6:45pm. We are currently expecting another girl Lily Ann to be born May 31, 2009 and I just can't relax not until she is here and safe.

Jennifer - posted on 02/17/2009

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Hello everyone. My husband and I lost our first son Noah at 22 weeks, in July of 2007. I went into labor and they were not able to save him. I still think for some reason I did something wrong. This past May 2008 we were blessed with twin boys Joseph and Josiah that were born at 26 weeks. They were in the NICU for 3 months. They are doing amazingly well with no major health problems. It's truly a miracle

User - posted on 02/09/2009

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'Big hugs' Lisa!!



So sorry for the recent loss of your baby daughter, Scarlet.

I hope you and your family are coping through your sorrow, and want to let you know that if you need to talk about anything at all, we are all here for you.



xxx

Lisa - posted on 02/09/2009

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hi it has been 40 days since my hubby Lee and I lost our precious little darling Scarlet Ebony Crouch aged 9 weeks to SIDS we woke up on New Years Day to find she had gone in the night Scarlet laughed for the first time on New Years Eve the last time I saw her little smile was at 3 30 am when she woke for her breast feed and by 9 o clock she was gone I am sorry for your loss peace and love Lisa

User - posted on 02/03/2009

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I'm so deeply sorry Nicki for the recent loss of your sweet baby girl.

You must be feeling so raw and lost right now, as it's only been a week since you lost your precious baby.

How are you coping and your family coping?

If you need to talk we are all here for you.

Find comfort in knowing you are not alone.



Big hugs!

Nicki - posted on 02/02/2009

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I just lost my baby girl at 24 weeks gest.its been only a week since the loss. I went to the docter monday the 26 of jan. there was no heartbeat and I noticed no movement for about 5 days so it scared me thats why i went to the docter. they induced me on wednesday the 28th of jan. 2009. its been hard shes a beautifull baby we had a funeral for her on saturday. were hoping to have better luck next time and we are excited to try for a nother beautifull baby!!

User - posted on 01/25/2009

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*Hugs*

I'm so sorry for everyones losses.

It's not an easy experience to get through and no matter how recent or long ago you experienced a loss, you will always hold them forever in your hearts.

xxx

Sherry - posted on 01/24/2009

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Wow Sarah, 



i am so for your loss.... thanks for the encouragement....we just take one day at a time.  God is very good to us and will also be to you.  Hold in there.  Was your little one your first child?  It is not easy but really search your heart about other children.  keep looking up...you will never forget  and you will see your child again...and hold Paul for eternity :)

Sarah - posted on 01/21/2009

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Quoting Sherry:



Hello everyone, 






Wow what a pleasure to find you  all,  our first chlid left us at 9 weeks gest. back in 1988.  Our daughter , Sarah was born 1991,  then her brother , Tanner , 1993.  When he was 3 another baby leaves us at about 9 weeks again.   Emma is born in 1997,  baby #5 leaves us at around 11 weeks :(,  Hannah is born, Aug. 1999,  Nathanael is born,  June 2001.  One last child leaves us (early gest.), Samuel is born Dec. 2003,  Abigail is born Sept. 2005.  In June 2007 we experience the birth if our 8 th child , "still" at 39 weeks gestation.  WOW.....as if the miscarraiges were not bad enough.  This just about killed me , and frankly somedays you really do feel as if you will die the pain is so bad.  We have had another child,  certainly not in replacement of Mary.  ( some people say the most aweful things),  Isabella Glory Pink ,  She is so sweet and her and i have the most wonderful conversations about her sister, Mary,  cause i believe that she knows her in a way that we have not .  I am so glad that she was put in my life and i will never forget her and the time i had with her.  I know i will hold her again someday........Sherry



 



hi sherry i just wanted 2say i think ur amazing 2 have carried on after all ur losses i was just reading ur post and i cryed 4 u i have lost my baby boy paul aged 7 weeks 2 SIDS and his loss was enough 4 me  i just wanted 2 say i feel 4 u i hope u dont mind me saying this 2 u  good luck 2 u and ur family





 

Sherry - posted on 01/21/2009

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Hello everyone, 



Wow what a pleasure to find you  all,  our first chlid left us at 9 weeks gest. back in 1988.  Our daughter , Sarah was born 1991,  then her brother , Tanner , 1993.  When he was 3 another baby leaves us at about 9 weeks again.   Emma is born in 1997,  baby #5 leaves us at around 11 weeks :(,  Hannah is born, Aug. 1999,  Nathanael is born,  June 2001.  One last child leaves us (early gest.), Samuel is born Dec. 2003,  Abigail is born Sept. 2005.  In June 2007 we experience the birth if our 8 th child , "still" at 39 weeks gestation.  WOW.....as if the miscarraiges were not bad enough.  This just about killed me , and frankly somedays you really do feel as if you will die the pain is so bad.  We have had another child,  certainly not in replacement of Mary.  ( some people say the most aweful things),  Isabella Glory Pink ,  She is so sweet and her and i have the most wonderful conversations about her sister, Mary,  cause i believe that she knows her in a way that we have not .  I am so glad that she was put in my life and i will never forget her and the time i had with her.  I know i will hold her again someday........Sherry

Natasha - posted on 01/20/2009

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3 yrs since we lost our first two (xmas 2005 & Feb 2006), jsut over 2 yrs since we lost Anna, and nearly a year since we lost Angel #4

Lucy - posted on 01/14/2009

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Nearly 5months since we lost our little Tadpole. Not a day goes by when we dont thing about her. We are 15weeks pregnant

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