My 5 year old is waaaay too hipper for his age!

Chenyl - posted on 10/04/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My 5 year old is way too hipper for his age. I'm pretty sure he has ADHD, seeing as I had it when I was a child and he acts exactly the way I did when I was young. We have tried to have him tested but they won't test a child for ADD or ADHD until they are 6. He just turned 5 in August, so I still have practically a whole year to wait until we can get him tested. He also doesn't like to listen, and often runs away from me thinking it's a game when I 'm trying to disipline him calmly but sternly, especially in public. When he does this it frustrates me to no end, which results in me losing my temper and yelling at him, ultimately leading up to a spanking. It's worse in public because I think he realizes that I won't raise my voice too much to him in public and I definately won't spank him. I don't like being that mom that has to spank her kid to get him to listen, and even then it doesn't work all the time. It seems like nothing works and I'm at the end of my ropes. He knows how to push my buttons and keep pushing them all day until I can't take it anymore and then I do yell and I do spank him, because I don't know what else to do.... nothing works. Do any of you have any suggestions on channeling his energy into some type of activity that he can do or even we can do together so that he is not so hipper and out of control?

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Jennifer - posted on 11/28/2011

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refined sugars and white flours set off a friend of mine. He was almost diagnosed with that before they discovered his allergy / sensitivity. Reduce processed foods. There's lots of good reading about food and behavior concerns online and in books.

On a side note, I always insist I get my sons eye contact when asking him to do something otherwise he runs too. I don't believe in spanking, I think it sends the message that physical force will get you what you want or you should fear your parents instead of trusting.

Good luck!

Jennifer - posted on 10/05/2011

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Caffiene usually has the opposite effect on ADD/ADHS people than it does with other people. My little brother was crazy hyper when he was a kid, and instead of dosing him with medication like the doctor wanted my mom to, she tried other things. She had heard that giving a SMALL amount of soda to hyper kids would calm them down and she tried it and it worked. He had a glass of soda once a day and was calm all day. This was from ages 5-13, and than he wanted to try coffee, so he had a cup of coffee with my mom in the morning before school & he succeeded and learned without being crazy hyper. He just turned 18 a few days ago, and is a great "adult" (lol). His growth was stunted from drinking the coffee, as people seem to think happens. Just some suggestions, I hope you find something that works right for your family.