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Any other single moms ever get lonely?

Elisa - posted on 03/16/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My husband and I split when my daughter was 8 days old. She is now 9 months and I'm a hard working, loving mother. BUT I get super lonely. My daughter is my first priority but does that mean I can't date or move on? My soon to be ex husband makes me feel bad if I want to go out like I'm leaving her or don't care. Anyone else ever feel like this? Any tips for getting out there and dating again? (I'm a young mom so men in my age group are a little weary of a Mommy)

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Cassie - posted on 01/10/2011

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NO MA'AM! You do what you want to in the dating aspect! You need to be happy as well! For you & your childs sake! As for going out as long as shes safe with someone you trust you shouldnt worry. Make sure they have a contact number & you can check up on the baby! I am young as well sweetheart & some men find a mom sexy! You just need to find the right ones! But we weary of men just lookin for a piece. Message me anytime ok? I TOTALLY understand what you mean!

Rebecca - posted on 04/01/2010

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im glad to hear that....
it really hard trying to find a guy willing to accept you and your child. i've been told by guys that they like me but cant be with me for i have a child - im like she's the reason why i am the person who i am today.
its going to take time but it will happen!

Elisa - posted on 03/30/2010

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Oh I would NEVER hide my child, then I'd have nothing else to talk about! She's my world

Rebecca - posted on 03/29/2010

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you need to take care of yourself as well as you little girl.

you need to take time to recover for the divorce and spen time on getting to know yourseld. learn what you want from your life and what you need.

you have all the right to go out with friends and get back into the dating game. the only thing i would reccomend is to do it slowly and dont hide the fact that you have a child.

she is who you are and if a guy cant accept that then how can they accept you??

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