HELP!! custody case with abusive father.

Monique - posted on 12/05/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

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I am new at this I have always kept to myself about situations in my life but my children's health is at risk my daughter is 9 and has so many health issues with her stomach and nose bleeds worse than a normal nose bleed didn think it was normal doctor said its caused by stress. I actually wrote this out this morning to post on here but this is the hour i have a second to do somthing like this. i really appriciate any feed back the simple word goes along way of a smile. I just left court this morning just to find out that my daughter going with someone that spent a good part of his life in prison. when he would attempt to pick her up before my daughter getting into the vehicle he would argue with me and cause problems with people who are around and my child had to witness all of this on numberous occassions. she is very afraid of him because of what she remember him doing to us when she was young. He is a very violent man. him and his girlfriend always question her about what goes on at home what is said were we go how and with who. my daughter dose not see her dad during visitation she stays with the girlfriend and she treats her mean then when dad come home she changes the way she treats her. and that's when her dad starts up on her because she says how she feels or crys, if she asks to call me (mother) which in the visitation papers it says calls can be made but they denie that to her , even with a bloody nose they both told her that she waisted the money they used to buy the matress she bleed on while sleeping. now the judge stopped child support and granted him enforcement on visitation. she is so depressed she is in counseling three times a week she wakes up threw out the night crying holding on to me.When counseling was mentioned to him he said he said that didn concern him. The judge asked him to join sessions with her he stated he worked all the time and couldn say if he could go or not. because he had a lawyer next to him he came up with going with her once every two weeks. when we are to go out side for any reason every car that passes she hides behind me or makes sure she has a secure place to run to A child should not live there life hiding. she was a A student loved school, grades are dropping and she cant always get to sleep or stay asleep to be rested for school she refuses to go. always coming up with ways to remember street signs and phone numbers my daughter is 9 i thought it was great at first now im seeing why. father states the issues she is having has nothing to do with him as a parent regaurdless of what her issues have to do with all of her issues are my issues first I cant see how a father can blow that off with no compassion . I don't know what to do anymore I just want my daughter to be happy and be a kid.

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