husband gay?

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Jeannie - posted on 07/04/2010

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oh wow...your a bigger woman then me...if my husband was a cross dresser and everything else you said, i'de be out the door...regardless of love, if they like that...there is no changing them, and you shouldn't have to convince your husband to want to be with you sexually or in anyway...it's not worth it..good luck to you.

Cheryl - posted on 07/04/2010

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I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. It sounds from your blog that you have pretty much made up your mind about whether or not to stay with him and I must say you have stayed longer than I could have. I think almost any one of those things would be enough for me to leave, but the lying would be the worst for me. Good luck, I hope it works out for you and your kids.

Vuyokazi - posted on 07/04/2010

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sorry i amgaed to read yo stry..trully it is an adction..i odn't think he is gay at all..when u depressed u hardly wanna make sex bt what makes him depresed ..u need to find spirua help for yo church ask him to c spiritual counsillor maye he will open up abt his depression..and all of this statred when he was nt working? my husband is nt woking bt he is sef emplyed bt his job doen't give him money at all so he is at home all the time except when he deliver somthing he has done for hi customers..bt thamnk go he finally told me he is sick and tired of being a baby sitter..kids can be so frustarating..at times..bt we moms we shuld consider to ask for extra help bt father is nt the oe who shuld saty home ..that where the prbolem satrt..u need to get someone elese to look sfter the children again sister..or take yo baies to after care after school..and he can collect them later when u r abt to approahcoming home...i don't know if that will help u..bt my frist rensopnce was totatly worng ..i haven't read abt yo blog..at that time..

Vuyokazi - posted on 07/04/2010

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i don't abt yo belief sister..bt in my belif..u shuld divorce him and let him go..obvioulsy he is leeping with a same sex as he is..so it is an abomination to God..s much u love him u need to sit don and talk abt this and let him go..to follow his heart..and God will prvde u with a straigh man..bt make u understand each other..coz it wil affcet yo children too..my qest is when didi u find out abt this?

Sandra - posted on 06/03/2010

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Even if you husband is Gay it does not mean that you two have to split up. I have a really good friend of mine who Identified as Gay from the time he was 9 years old. He came out to his family and friend's as Gay when he was 14 years old. From the time he was 14 tell the time he was almost 25 he was a Gay man a proud of it. He was very active with in the Gay community and most of his friends were with in that community too. At 25 he met this women through work and had feelings for her. It is almost 5 years later and he is happily married to this women and has 2 children with her. He still Identifies as Gay and is still active within the Gay community but to anyone who doesn't know him he is straight.

All that I am saying is that If two people LOVE each other and are willing to work on the relationship it will happen but if both people are not totally committed to the relationship it is not going to work no matter if he is Gay or not.

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