i need some advice.

Cassandra - posted on 03/23/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )

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ok, my daughter is 5 years old. and she is blind. she goes to headstart because she needs to be with other kids, if she stays home she gets bored and what not. she is just like a normal child but juss has a lil set back. but anyways she has been going to this school since she was 3 and she has a one on one, which is someone to be by her side to make sure she dont get hurt or if she needs help someone is right there. and last year she had no problems wit her one on one. but this year she has a different one, and alexis comes home everyday with something knew. either she talks rudly to her, or does something wrong, like lets alexis go to the bathroom by herself. alexis comes home with differents shoes all the time, never get papers back or nothing. and i kept her home for a couple of days then let her go because they were having a feild trip and the one on one was nice but that was because she was being watched by her boss. then the next week i let her go back and the one on one told lex to shut up! i didnt believe lex because lexi got attention from all the other times coming home and complaining i thought maybe she was juss sayin that, but my nephew goes to the same school and he said that the one on one did tell lex to shut up. see the school down there does everything they are not suppose to do. the use to put kids in time out till people kept asking them about it. one time they even wanted to put a child onto the bus all by his/herself because it was misbehaving. this one on one wont even say hi when i see her in the store or anything. n she acts like its a crime if alexis doesnt go to school, i have to explain to her why she didnt go if she sees me in public, but other than that she dont talk to me unless im at the school. but when her boss is around or im there she dont do n e thing wrong, but when juss lex is there she always has complaints i dont know what to do because of course they are going to deny the fact that she said shut up to my child. and this same one on one goes to my moms daycare and has a child there and they are having problems with how rude to talks to children as well there. sooo please give me ur input. thank u very much!

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Nia - posted on 03/28/2011

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you need to go to the head of the school and complain.... if you know that the school does all these things, it's bigger than just the one on one. is there another head start that you can take her to?

April - posted on 03/27/2011

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a mom of three...it's time to get new one on one or new school..I would opt for new school..u usually get what u pay for but there are some private schools that have scholarships! I feel for u as a parent, a mother..it's hard to put ur child in someone else's hands. I have a son who's in 1st grade who has food allergies & he almost die. but he is okay lucky. so to trust...is very hard

Fraoch - posted on 03/24/2011

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This women is being paid for a job she is not doing ,is there a parents support in the school or any one else who can help you ?

Sonia - posted on 03/24/2011

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Hi, I'm sorry that you and your little one are going true that situation, looks like you are in a vicious circle is there any way you can change her from that school? the way I see it is if you complaint she might take it again your little one... take the time to browse other schools or request transfer!!

Cassandra - posted on 03/24/2011

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yea i want her to have a different one. but the thing is it takes awhile to get a one on one, they have limited people for that up here in Maine. but we called the school today, and they said they are going to do something about it. because for the past 2 or 3 weeks alexis has only been going to school for 2 days outta the week and she is suppose to go 4 days, because alexis doesnt like going there no more and she loves school. so hopefully something gets done.

Candy - posted on 03/24/2011

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Find her a different one on one. You know in your heart what you need to do. You just have to do it. Your child is suffering here and could get hurt with this lady.

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