when spanking for discipline do you put over your knee or how and bare bottom or not?

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I spank over-the-knee with my hand on the bare bottom. My daughter hasn't needed to go there yet, but my son has had two sessions on the side of my bed. I think it makes perfect sense to spank on the bare. Why would I not wish to actually see what I was doing?

In both cases, I gave a dozen smacks (age X 2) from cheek to cheek, finishing with three down low where the bottom and legs come together. The spanking stings and reddens the bum, and the tears are real. But my son knew why I was spanking him, and the spankings he got taught him a lesson. If that isn't the object of the exercise, I don't know what is.

Anna - posted on 11/15/2012

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I'm a firm believer of spanking. That is what's wrong with kids now they don't get them anymore. My daughter will be 10 soon and I use a paddle like they have in schools, but not bare bottomed. I make her grab her ankles. She's too big to put over my knee. After a few of those, you won't have to use it any more just the threat of it works.

Bonham - posted on 06/08/2016

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My wife does the spanking in our house. 2 girls 16 and 14, I think they are to old for me to be present. As she spanks over the knee hairbrush, pj's down before bed. The squeals make me feel guilty sometimes. My wife says it's the only way they will learn, who is right? Comments appreciated.
Daniel and Harriet.
danielmann53@Gmail.com

Michael - posted on 11/27/2013

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I've smacked my daughters bottom she defies me sometimes I've had her over my knee tonite

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 11/15/2012

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Ok, WAS sufficient...mine are 18 & 14 now

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John - posted on 06/16/2017

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Do you get spanked, turn u on. I'd spank u over my knee, pants down, stockings on for a very hard hand spanking

John - posted on 06/10/2017

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I'm interested in chatting about bare Bottom Spanking both as punishment and role play - mail me johnrbrand1969@gmail.com

Joe - posted on 05/06/2017

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I see a lot of child abusers in this thread, you realize your IP addresses can be tracked :).

Joe - posted on 05/06/2017

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Are you in support of sexual assault?, hitting people's genitals through force is a weird thing to be pleased about.

Joe - posted on 05/06/2017

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Neither, just encourages domestic violence since you're saying it's okay to solve an issue by hitting someone. Would you do the same to your husband or wife?

Laura - posted on 05/05/2017

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I have my kids take off there pants and underwear and bend over my bed when I administer paddling.

Otis - posted on 03/10/2017

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If your going to use a cane just remember your caning a child I think caning is too extreme switch will do what you need without harming the child.

Ljearwood - posted on 03/02/2017

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Over the knee spanking with the pants down is normal where I come from. I use the belt on the bare butt and they came out fine. My girls have to take their pants and panties down for any form of punishment in the house. The belt and wooden spoon work best.

Rachel Louise - posted on 02/09/2017

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I was still spanked at your age so I would say certainly if discipline works for you

T - posted on 02/06/2017

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i was aged four and very naughty in that i put an item of my fathers into the livingroom fire he found me doing it and spanked my bare bottom until lt looked like blood red and crying my eyes out accross his knee! with a very sore bare bottom

Otis - posted on 01/27/2017

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Children should always be spanked bare bottom hurts more don't have to use much force you can see how red so you know when to stop. My so called mother would make me pull down my pants once my pants hit my ankles she would with her left hand grab my wrist pull me over and towards her knee keeping me bent over once at her knee with her right hand thumb and forefinger she would slide her thumb right down my tailbone under the waist band of my underpants clasp her thumb and forefinger together pull out and down on my underpants and down they go to my ankles over her knee and she starts spanking. Started being spanked at age 6 to 16 always bare bottom.

This is for the person says they cane Thier kids my opinion that's too harsh instead use a switch on their bare bottom get better results.

Sandra Van - posted on 01/22/2017

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I spank my girls thoroughly with a hairbrush and with a belt on the bare bottom

Amy - posted on 01/18/2017

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Hi Michelle, normally over trousers and skirts. bare bottom is not an acceptable norm in Asian culture :) Cheers A

Michelle_williams - posted on 01/18/2017

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do you cane over their knickers or underpants or trousers/skirts?

Amy - posted on 01/15/2017

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I cane my kids over clothing as bare bottom is not an acceptable norm in Asian culture. My kids are required to bend over and touch their toes so their bottoms are well presented to cane. If they incorporate I will increase the number of strokes.

Xlbx19 - posted on 12/29/2016

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For the mom who smacks their child in private sand invites family to smack them, YOU NEED HELP. I HOPE YOUR CHILDREN ARE TAKEN FROM YOU. You are disgusting and a horrible parent!!

Bonham - posted on 12/06/2016

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Contact my wife Harriet, she would like to talk with you.
harrietdaniel03@googlemail.com

Michelle_williams - posted on 11/26/2016

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when I spank it's always bare bottom. I use a cane or brush when necessary and those underpants or knickers always come down so I can monitor the effects of the spanking. Its also more painful and of course children hate it so it's a good deterrent as well.

Dan - posted on 11/01/2016

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We spank our oldest boy, age 9 with the hairbrush and strap. My wife gives him the first half of a spanking over her lap with the hairbrush on his bare hiney I finish his spanking using a strap to whip his hiney, usually while he is standing.

We spank our younger kids with a ruler and a tiny strap. They have to take off all their clothes and we put them on their back. then we lift up the legs and my wife uses a ruler to spank the hiney and thighs in the diaper position, and I use a tiny strap on the hiney and thighs..

Chris - posted on 10/28/2016

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I spank my son bare bottom.

It's necessary to do as this for a best attitude later...

Silversun24210 - posted on 10/22/2016

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You have got to be kidding....right?!?!? Please tell me this is a joke!!!! I am referring to the post that says they spank their child in the privates & call over family members to join in.

Chelsea - posted on 10/21/2016

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I spank mine over my knees and yes bare bottom. It's easy to see and know when to stop.

Stephanie - posted on 10/18/2016

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Like most here I always spank them bare bottomed, usually bare from the waist down. Always across my knee, gives me more control and allows me to see the results.

Georgia - posted on 09/15/2016

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My kids are older now, but I used to spank them over my knee. I didn't agree with the idea of bare bottom spanking. I usually took down their pants and spanked them over their underwear. I didn't like to use an object, I preferred to use my hand. However, I will admit there were a couple of times that I spanked my son with a belt.

DTHW - posted on 09/01/2016

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Seriously consider other forms of discipline, not punishment. It takes a great deal of education and effort to be an effective parent and I can understand why spanking is considered to be useful. It appears to be effective, quick, easy... It is in the short run, but the psychological damage is long term and will last into adulthood. If you have problems with your teen or adult children, it can be directly linked back to child abuse and spanking qualifies. It sounds liberal and soft but the research is there. I couldn't believe it at first myself but the more I educated myself in the topic the more I am convinced that any form of physical abuse is wrong. Please consider the more difficult effortful parenting techniques that provide the best long term pay off. You will have better relationships with your children in life... Think about when you are old. There are many people rotting in nursing homes because their adult children resent them and disrespect them for reasons that can be traced back to their childhood and I'm not talking late childhood. Parenting begins at conception. It's to your benefit to bond appropriately with your offspring, your DNA. Would you hurt yourself like this? For anyone who doesn't hesitate with some guilt before or even after they inflict this pain, or who is proud of it, you may be a sociopath.

Sandra Elaine - posted on 08/26/2016

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Oops! Sorry , I meant to say there's no point in smacking a bottom unless it's completely bare(not not bare) Sandra

Sandra Elaine - posted on 08/26/2016

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When I was a teenager I got spanked (and sometimes more than spanked )over my Mum's knee right up to age 17 . Mum used to use a mixture of the paddle and a Pearson hairbrush .I had to actually at a preset time knock on the study door and specifically ask to be punished and then present my bare bottom for punishment. It was extremely humiliating but on reflection I think humiliation has to be part of the punishment otherwise punishments would be ineffective and there's no point in smacking a bottom unless it is not completely bare which means knickers MUST come down .Let this be a lesson to those permissive society circle of moms. .Regards Sandra
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Rachel Louise - posted on 07/18/2016

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I was always spanked this way. My dad used a big wooden brush or cane

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