Anal Sex

Sharon - posted on 08/10/2009 ( 49 moms have responded )

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yeah yeah throwing it out there.



Ok his one request I CANNOT get into. No pun intended. I'm sorry but its the poop chute! ( omg these euphemisms won't go away!) I just get so grossed out, and honestly I don't see it as sexual and no matter what he has tried, I've just never gotten so aroused that it seemed like a good idea.



anyone?

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Cindy - posted on 02/12/2012

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I always thought it was digusting and I was scared to try it. But after trying it and doing it a few times I found that I actually like it better than vaginal.

Louise - posted on 05/07/2010

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Kate you really crack me up!

This does not appeal to me and thank God my husband has never requested anal sex. Mind you after 25 years of being together and 20 years of marriage there is not alot left unexplored! But this area is virgin territory!

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I happen to like anal-- The second time I ever had sex, I requested anal, actually. Honestly, though I do prefer to lay on my back and do it that way. Bending over in a doggy position or trying to ride is just too uncomfortable for me. Don't get me wrong, with enough lube I am willing to do either, but I prefer to be on my back in a missionary position, I feel it goes in easier. :)

Jodi - posted on 08/12/2009

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I CAN enjoy it, but I really have to be in the mood and in a kinky frame of mind :) If I'm not, there is absolutely no way I even entertain the idea. But I have to be honest, when I am in the mood, the orgasm can be absolutely amazing.

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Sally - posted on 02/17/2012

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I love it as a change but find booze doesn't help. A semi hard on is no good. Its got to be hard,no getting away with stuffing it in and letting grow. It just makes it akward.lol. Also have to be in control. He doesn't push in, i push down at my pace and when its all loosened up i go for it. It can be the most amazing thing.

Gosh, id never talk to my friends about this.lol

p.s i have heard that mens G spot is in their anus and i know you can get toys for it ( here we call them butt plugs ) but have you seen how slim and small they are,seems a bit unfair.lmao

Pat - posted on 03/12/2011

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Youneed to be really careful ..lots of lube and go slowly. some like it some abhor it and plenty of in between.. remember to clean every time the penis leaves the butt before it enters another orifice.

Having said the above in the right frame of mind I really enjoy it

Ashley - posted on 03/09/2011

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Me and my hubby have just recently tried anal sex again, b/c the first time we tried it hurt me so we never tried again. That was until I requested it this time, since I have been researching stuff about it. I found out why it hurt so much the first time, so when we did it the other day I knew to try and completely relax. Once I got past the small amount of pain, I really enjoyed it.

Stifler's - posted on 01/21/2011

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that is the funniest shit i have ever heard shauna ahahahahhaa

Shauna - posted on 01/21/2011

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The thought of it freaks me out and grosses me out. My husband told me this story : in highschool his best friend was having a party and his g/f and him were fucking in the room. All of a sudden he comes running out naked with poop all over him .. saying THAT BITCH SHIT ON ME!!! well they tried anal and he said he just kept squirting lube and more and more in her butt untill all the in and out motion caused the poop to come flying out!!!! mixed with a ton of lube. EWWW ... but they are married now so must not of bothered him that bad.
Then this other guy said this women orgasmed so much from it she lost control of her body and just shit all over the bed but it turned hiim on b/c he turned her on :/ ------------- eww i say no no on the rear end.
My husband said one of his x's wanted it so they did.... so now everytime he gets near my ass i scream DONT DO ME IN THE BUTT---- YOU HAVE PRIORS!!!!!!!!!!!

Rosie - posted on 11/16/2010

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my hubby begged me for years, and i always refused. i couldnt' stand the idea of his penis going up where i poop. it grossed me out.
a couple years ago i gave in. i hated it. i was in so much pain my face was flushed. there was no pleasure in it for me at all. never, ever, again!

Stifler's - posted on 11/09/2010

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We have tried it and I don't like it. When we try it it never gets all the way in because I get annoyed with it and don't feel aroused by it at all.

Nikki - posted on 08/23/2010

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My husband is all for it, i considered it once, but in all honesty he is not by any means average down there, the first time we had sex I cried my eyes out it took me months before I was comfortable and not in excruciating pain, so the thought of him putting it in my bum scares the absolute shit out of me... no pun intended lol

Stephanie - posted on 07/29/2010

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My hubby loves it, and I was a little scared at first, but then decided to let him go for it. It isnt soo bad, however the more lube you use the better and it wont hurt as much if you use alot.

Charlie - posted on 05/07/2010

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Oh and you can always do it after a shower and just give it a quick clean with your finger .

Charlie - posted on 05/07/2010

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The important thing to remember when trying it is the woman should be the one inserting herself onto him while pushing out or relaxing your muscles much like dare i say it doing a poo ( dont worry you wont )and not the other way round with him forcing it on you because when he is in control he doesnt feel how relaxed your muscles are , the more control you have the more pleasant it will be and dont forget LUBE !

Kate CP - posted on 05/06/2010

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Nope...my husband is very protective of his anus. I'm still having a hard time getting him to go to the doctor's for his first prostate check.

JoDee - posted on 05/06/2010

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interesting thread ....have any of you been on the giving end of anal(ie. pegging)? I have and it has been a wonderful experience for both me and hubby.

Cassie - posted on 10/03/2009

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I laughed the whole time my husband and I try the first time. I just didn't find it sexual at all and just the thought of what comes out of that whole just freaked me out. My husbands penis DOES NOT belong there. Thank god he didn't even get any pleasure from it, and we just both ended up laughing our asses (ha) off because it was so awkward.

Mel - posted on 09/29/2009

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i just tried it properly for the first time, i mean without stopping after a few seconds. wasnt too bad as we messed around before hand. i will definately try it again one day the little amount of pain is worth it :)

Esmeralda - posted on 08/29/2009

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TONS OF LUBE will do the trick,and start out slow.



So,yes i have done it. i enjoy it,but i have to be in the mood for it.

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Quoting Loureen:



Quoting Melissa:




Quoting Jodi:

I CAN enjoy it, but I really have to be in the mood and in a kinky frame of mind :) If I'm not, there is absolutely no way I even entertain the idea. But I have to be honest, when I am in the mood, the orgasm can be absolutely amazing.








you can orgasm from anal? I always wondered that but still dont get how. maybe ill try it properly sometime -)









you can most definatly orgasm from anal , you also have a G spot in there and that passage is super sensitive , so yes it is possible and easier for some.





Wow! you learn something new every day.



I have only done it once in the shower and kept having the feeling i needed to push out

Heidi - posted on 08/19/2009

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Its certainly nothing for me. Nothing is to go in my butt under no circumstances. Thats just the way I feel. I know people who have tried it and say its good,but I personally don't have any desire to find out. I enjoy every other aspect of sex, and me and my husband are very experimental, but that is one thing we won't even discuss at all.

ME - posted on 08/16/2009

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I did it with a bf a long time ago, but he was 11 inches...and it hurt so bad I could barely walk for a couple of days..too scared to try again to hubbys dismay!

Jocelyn - posted on 08/15/2009

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Quoting Kate:

Thankfully my husband is not into it. When I asked him why he said "There's a perfectly good hole right above it that doesn't have shit in it."

I was cackling for hours. ;)


HAHAHA omg that just made my day!!!



 anyways, my hubby is a total ass man, so we've done anal a few times, and it's always an option if he wants it, but like someone said above, i really have to be in the right frame of mind.

Mel - posted on 08/13/2009

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Quoting Meg:

DEFINITELY can orgasm from it! It can be really great, and a totally different more intense orgasm too!

I have done it with another guy before the one I am now with, and he had a "smaller" penis so it was great! AMAZING in fact! I have tried it with the man I am with now, and well he's "too big"! (Yes size matters *wink*). It worked, we did it, but aren't in a big hurry to go again. He was SUPER thoughtful, gentle and slow, and LOTS AND LOTS of lube!! He prefers the traditional hole, so that's what we use, but once in a while to change things up we try again knockin on the back door. OH remember you MUST stay relaxed!!



haha my 2 serious bfs that i was in love with were "big" and the first guy where we tried anal he just shoved it in hurt so bad i cried lol, second i am still with he is my fiance and hes a little more gentle but we still havent gone their properly yet just a little for a short time after i gave birth. but i think i already wrote that on this thread :)

Michelle - posted on 08/13/2009

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We've done it a couple of times. First time we were drinking and decided to give it a whirl. Not something we do a lot of though.

Girlio - posted on 08/13/2009

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DEFINITELY can orgasm from it! It can be really great, and a totally different more intense orgasm too!

I have done it with another guy before the one I am now with, and he had a "smaller" penis so it was great! AMAZING in fact! I have tried it with the man I am with now, and well he's "too big"! (Yes size matters *wink*). It worked, we did it, but aren't in a big hurry to go again. He was SUPER thoughtful, gentle and slow, and LOTS AND LOTS of lube!! He prefers the traditional hole, so that's what we use, but once in a while to change things up we try again knockin on the back door. OH remember you MUST stay relaxed!!

Deanne - posted on 08/12/2009

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Lots of alcohol!!! That's the only time we've done it. Helps you relax. The girls on pornos have the biggest butt holes ever!! Gross! Those hoes are the ones that turn me off of a lot of things.
But yes, I have enjoyed it. But then it can hurt extremely bad if your not ready!

Charlie - posted on 08/12/2009

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Quoting Melissa:



Quoting Jodi:

I CAN enjoy it, but I really have to be in the mood and in a kinky frame of mind :) If I'm not, there is absolutely no way I even entertain the idea. But I have to be honest, when I am in the mood, the orgasm can be absolutely amazing.






you can orgasm from anal? I always wondered that but still dont get how. maybe ill try it properly sometime -)





you can most definatly orgasm from anal , you also have a G spot in there and that passage is super sensitive , so yes it is possible and easier for some.

Nyoka - posted on 08/12/2009

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i thought i wouldnt like it but as they say ya cant knock it before ya try it so we tried it and it felt great.. once ya get started all the pain (if ya can call it that) goes away.. but we have one rule if we go that way and that is that i lead him in hes not to ram me lol cuz that hurts!!

Kate CP - posted on 08/12/2009

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Thankfully my husband is not into it. When I asked him why he said "There's a perfectly good hole right above it that doesn't have shit in it."

I was cackling for hours. ;)

Angie - posted on 08/12/2009

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I call it the gay screw! :) And no, we almost tried but I cried like a little baby! :) He wants to so bad...but I just can't, ITS EXIT ONLY!!!!!!! Sometimes I feel like he is trying to be gay... I JUST CAN'T!!!! :)

Lindsay - posted on 08/12/2009

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We have tried but it hasn't worked for me. I know friends that LOVE that but it's just not for me.....=)

Mel - posted on 08/12/2009

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Quoting Jodi:

I CAN enjoy it, but I really have to be in the mood and in a kinky frame of mind :) If I'm not, there is absolutely no way I even entertain the idea. But I have to be honest, when I am in the mood, the orgasm can be absolutely amazing.



you can orgasm from anal? I always wondered that but still dont get how. maybe ill try it properly sometime -)

JL - posted on 08/12/2009

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I am with Sharon and Sara..I just cannot relax enough to go there...the thoughts of poo just don't do it for me.

Kylie - posted on 08/12/2009

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I've tried it a few times..felt pretty nice for a while but i really didn't like the feeling after. Those girls in porno's make it look so easy but you have take it slow and be very turned on.... I like doggy position and when he puts pressure on my butt with his thumb. TMI?
oh yeh you never go ass to mouth! :)

Lydia - posted on 08/11/2009

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Love the idea - tried it once - never again!



You can get a yeast infection anywhere there is moisture and limited air - I got it under my breasts - dunno why but went to the doc thinking it was stretch marks - rofl! :P

Sharon - posted on 08/11/2009

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heehehee I'm evil...



You can get a yeast infection in between rolls of fat..... I do not know that personally - I just happened to read it, rotfl.

Kate CP - posted on 08/11/2009

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...you can get a yeast infection in yer butt? Wow. The things you learn online... ;)

Sharon - posted on 08/11/2009

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OK LMAO@ poor kate.



Um hemorroids suck, try getting an anal yeast infection - oh dear god - I had that ONCE while I was pregnant. I've never had a vaginal yeast infection and it was sooo embarassing to tell my doctor. Their suggestion? Preperation H. UGH didn't work.. henny hoo... thats a different topic...

Sara - posted on 08/11/2009

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I can't do it either, can't get into it, doesn't arouse me...but I have friend's that love it! To each their own, I guess!

Kate CP - posted on 08/11/2009

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Well, I kinda agree with you Sharon. Then again, I have hemorrhoids, so that doesn't sounds very comfortable to me. :P

Mel - posted on 08/11/2009

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worth trying definately. i heard make sure you have been to the bathroom before hand make sure you are clean go for a bath and wash with a nice smelling shower gel. lots of lube he wont feel it the first time with all the lube but its got to be done to get used to it. try letting him use fingers there first if your nervous. oral sex is better when you let him use fingers in the butt , sorry if thats TMI.



me personally partner wants to try way more then me but i still think about it except every time i want to its heat of the moment and he wonders why i push him away. i havent cleaned myself so cannot let him try and i think he wonders why i push him away considering i use to let him use fingers there years ago and ive even let him do anal sex with me after i gave birth and couldnt have normal sex. just went slow. i had an ex do it years and years ago and he went straight in it hurt so bad i cried. but that only happen when ur not prepared and with a guy who just wants to get his rocks off. youve seriously got me thinking about trying it again though i do really want to. heard from friends its a great experience after the first few times

?? - posted on 08/10/2009

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Lube. Baby Wipes. Relax. Go slow. And be in control. Use the baby wipes to clean yourself, lube it up like crazy, him and you, and then just relax and YOU be in control (chances are, he will get off just on you being in control of him around your butt - even if he doesn't go in).



As long as you keep it sensual for you, your body will respond naturally, and as long as you are comfortable and in control, and you allow the sensuality to overtake the "ewww poo" thoughts... it can be an incredibly erotic experience and your husband will more than likely get off on your hands around him more, the moaning, the panting all the other erotic shit than him being in your ass (unless he's one of those guys that ONLY like to fuck and don't care about the rest of it).



Once you're both done - use the baby wipes to wipe him and you up, have a shower, whatever you do after you do it.



Tips/Advice... lay on your sides, your back to his front, reach around to grab him, stay in control, he can play with your breasts, stay relaxed and MOST OF ALL - stop if it gets uncomfortable, but don't NOT do it again - it could take multiple times of slowly going in once or twice or even just a lil more and then a lil more the next time.



Don't knock it until you try it. I'm not a huge fan of anal sex but it's not somethin I would dismiss just because of POOP. Mind over matter. It's an incredibly erotic sexual experience.

Charlie - posted on 08/10/2009

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honestly it freaked me out too !! but i did try it and to tell you the truth its amazing how good it felt , to me anyway .

In the end i think it freaked him out more , so we dont really go there anymore , if your worried about Poop , wash area before hand and use LUBE i cannot stress that enough.

Good luck whatever you do .

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