have things changed

Laura - posted on 06/16/2011

oh yes I think every mother will agree there lives have changed a LOT....but its the best kind of change there is though a child is a wonderful change that should always be embrassed. and yes our sex life has changed I wish it hadn't but it has.

Laura - posted on 06/16/2011

oh yes I think every mother will agree there lives have changed a LOT....but its the best kind of change there is though a child is a wonderful change that should always be embrassed. and yes our sex life has changed I wish it hadn't but it has.

Mabel - posted on 05/31/2011

I jump him every chance I get and wow do I jump him!!!! ;)

Kitty - posted on 05/22/2011

SEE AND MINE has dcreaed.. since my son 7 yrs ago I dont have same desire as i used to stress in my life has taken over so i am hopefully getting this part taken care of.. soon.....

Kitty - posted on 05/22/2011

YES....

Esmeralda - posted on 09/05/2009

Quoting Krista:

Oh hell yes. We used to go at it like bunnies. My husband would beg for quickies all the time. Now......well, I can count on one hand how many times we've had sex in the last 6 months. ONE hand, ladies. One hand, one time.

i understand.maybe not within six months,but sometimes we can go a whole month only having sex once.

if we go a month and no sex has happened we make it a point that night to do it lol

and it may sound weird,but sex is needed in a marriage! sometimes even if youre just not in the mood,you have to make yourself do it. b/c...after sex who actually is sad or upset it happened?!?! lol

Esmeralda - posted on 09/05/2009

ohhh yes!



we have way less sex then we use to.but thats b/c we are tired or stressed a lot.i dont think our sexual cycles are ever in sync lol



but our love has grown stronger and our love for our daughter is indescribable!

ME - posted on 08/16/2009

Yes...we used to have sex at least once a day...now it's more like 2x a week...I know hubby would like it more...but Bub never sleeps through the night, and always ends up in our bed...Now that I am preggo again...it's picking up more...;-)

Krista - posted on 08/15/2009

Oh hell yes. We used to go at it like bunnies. My husband would beg for quickies all the time. Now......well, I can count on one hand how many times we've had sex in the last 6 months. ONE hand, ladies. One hand, one time.

Cassie - posted on 08/15/2009

I think our relationship has def changed but for us it has been a wonderful change in all aspects; sex included. We look at each other now and look at the beautiful little girl we've created and it has made us so much closer. We share everything with one another and have become so much closer. Our sex life has even taken a major change for the better. Since having my daughter, my libido has increased exponentially and my husband loves that fact. ;) Having our daughter has just been such a blessing to every aspect of our lives.

Deanne - posted on 08/12/2009

Sure the stress factor of having your first new born had a major impact on our relationship but we grew & discussed our stresses & we've been growing more in love all the time.
We met when I was 14 & had our first bub when I was 21.
Our sex life has gone down dramatically from what it was. But that's going from a LOT of it to really good sex when it happens. I feel like down there has changed for the better since having kids. My orgasms are totally different & very intense now which obviously makes your relationship stronger..... ;-)
I do think my partner gets kind of jealous of the kids taking up so much of my time & attention but my son is going through a phase of getting stroppy if he can't hug me too LOL Males hey!

Lindsay - posted on 08/12/2009

We have a great sex life and it's improved with each child. My libido has also increased with each kid and his was always high so now we are more on the same page than ever. He really loves the fact that he doesn't have to initiate everything like he used to! =)

JL - posted on 08/12/2009

Yes..not as much sex or alone time but I have to say that my libido increased more after each child while my husband's has slowed down. When we were younger it was him wanting sex most of the time and me saying I am to tired and not in the mood and now it is me wanting sex and him saying he is too tired and not in the mood. It is funny because he will go to work complaining about how tired he is because I kept him up late and how he cannot keep up with me and the younger married guys will look at him and tell him they wish they had the same problem because their younger wives are hardly ever in the mood.

Lydia - posted on 08/11/2009

Yes and No - the sex life hasnt really changed but as a couple we work better as a team than we did before parenthood. Its a very subtle difference in the closeness of the relationship but our roles within it are the same as they ever were :)

Mel - posted on 08/11/2009

yes no sex now

Heather - posted on 07/06/2009

Quoting Loureen:

sex for us has slowed down a lot less than i would like , but ive made it pretty clear to him i NEED to have sex more lol its usually the other way round haha since then hes made an excellent effort im very happy .

I totally feel you, my libido has increased dramatically since the kids are here and he works so hard that lately he's been so tired, I usually just spoil him a little then he always recriprocates. I love how he makes time for me even when he's exhausted!

Heidi - posted on 06/26/2009

Well having 3 boys in the house, our life has changed for the better. Our boys are ages 18, 10 and 4. All of them are involved in some sort of sports so that keeps us busy, but I wouldn't have it any other way. We always make sure to make time for ourselves and eachother. We go out on dates at least twice a month and embrace the time we have alone when the boys are in bed(well the 2 younger ones that is)since the older one works full time now and has a girlfriend and friends so he isn't around to often, but he makes sure he is home for dinner to be with the family. Our marriage is stronger then ever. I totally love my husband he is the greatest and I truely love my boys.

Charlie - posted on 06/25/2009

sex for us has slowed down a lot less than i would like , but ive made it pretty clear to him i NEED to have sex more lol its usually the other way round haha since then hes made an excellent effort im very happy .

Kate CP - posted on 06/25/2009

Oh yea. Our sex life isn't what it used to be...but our marriage and our family is strong.