Do you like giving / Receiving Oral sex ?
MOST HELPFUL POSTS
Ryan - posted on 04/07/2013
I love giving and receiving but my fiancé (and mother of my daughter) hates both. I don't know what to do. It seems that she is the least sexual person I have ever been with even though we had sex on our second date and continued to have a great sex life for the next 12 months. The following 24 months have been like being with some old lady who wants nothing to do with sex. I told her if she doesn't want me, I'll have to find someone who does. Is the ultimatum a good idea?
Jelena - posted on 10/01/2012
I love getting oral sex and I do return the favour and I am proud I swallow-- love too (great diet food too)
And Kimala love your post and I with you a 100 percent
Kimala Fentress - posted on 10/14/2011 like giving and having my backside licked
I love to have my backside, yes my anus licked, it so so great. It is about equal have clit licked.
Cindy - posted on 05/23/2016
I like both receiving and giving oral sex. We'll have nights where we just do that and skip on having sex. It's usually nights that I have to get up early and won't have time to shower. My husband makes really big loads. Which is fun :-) but makes for a very messy vagina. Hence showering in the morning. Panty liners work well too.
But oral is a Lot cleaner. Fortunately I have No gag reflex. And I can easily hold my breath long enough for his entire orgasm start to finish. He just warns me a few seconds early and I go down to the base. He's far enough down my throat that I can feel him ejaculating but there's no taste. :-) and no big mess from his crazy big loads. Lol
J - posted on 01/10/2015
Kathy, my daughter (18) caught me giving my bf a blow job. I didn't know it but she watched from my bedroom door which I always kept ajar. My BF and I used to wait until late when she was asleep to fool around. He didn't come in my mouth because I jumped on top for him to finish. She did ask me about it the next day. She's caught us doing stuff a few times. We have a small house. I told her it's OK to watch us. It's really opened our communication
Kathy Waters - posted on 10/15/2012
I got interested in giving head when I was twelve and caught my mom giving head to her boyfriend and he was huge, I hid and watched until he came in her mouth, by the way she acted he shot a huge load. The next day I had a talk with my mom and she was cool about it and gave me the facts about giving head and swallowing cum. We watched some movies together and she schooled me on the finer points. I asked her about her boyfriend; she said he was nine inches and thick with a big tip. Mom said she was ok with me watching her and we talked about all aspects of sex, it was nice to have a mom who was willing to teach me the ropes before I started having sex
Ashley - posted on 08/19/2014
We should of been friends growing up. I learned abt when I was 11 & my parents left a porn in the vcr & I liked what I saw & realized it was tingly between my legs & when the girl started sucking the guys sick I was fascinated by it how it felt tasted ect... & when he shot his load in her mouth & face see looked liked it was heaven. I started spying on my parents & saw where there toys were & I took a dildo & tried it & loved the feeling turns out I have no gag reflex. I had an older brother 16. & was 12 now & he caught me naked rubbing myself while sucking a dildo & he was shocked but couldn't stop staring. I begged not for him to tell & he wouldn't he said.
I am a married adore giving my wife cunnilingus. I would do it everyday if I could. I love the clitoris especially when it becomes swollen and erect. It is like a little cock and my wife orders me to suck it. I also love sucking the labia particularly when they become really wet. I love the pussy juices. My wife will sometimes sits on my face, take charge holding her leather riding crop, and rub the juices all over my face then stick her clitoris in my mouth. I am her Clit Slave and she is the Clit Boss. I am also normally fully dressed in satin lingerie as well. HEAVEN. Comments welcome please.
Vicki - posted on 01/22/2014
I, like most girls, learned about oral as a teen girl. I am in my fiftys now and still think its a must in marriage. Women should strive to be a perfectionist at both giving and receiving, its probably the most beautiful act a woman can do for her partner.
R N - posted on 01/07/2014
I love oral as a man but I just love to give it to a woman.From the time I started sex I've always had fantasies about eating out a woman,just talking about it gets me.I love phat juicy wet pussies I'll eat them all day in all positions.I absolutely love two positions to eat pussy ,from behind with your ass all up in my face and squatting over my face,but I'm longing for the ultimate fantacy no one has given me yet.To squirt in my mouth while I'm really eating that pussy out.I want to experience that.
Jim - posted on 12/27/2013
I enjoy oral sex with a woman, it is such a high, I started very young, at 12 out of curiosity by licking a girl's vagina, and love giving as well as receiving to this day. I'm in my 60's and have not changed one way or the other in all those years.
Jim - posted on 12/27/2013
Sarah, you sound like someone who does enjoy oral, when a person does it a reciprocal or feeling they have to return the favor, to me, that's a sign they do not enjoy it they are only doing it out of feeling guilty they need to.
Camie - posted on 10/11/2013
I love receiving, and I do return the favor but until recently it was just that. So I have this new boyfriend after 11 years of mediocre married sex...and something about his shape (perfect cylinder) and size (about 8 inches long and average thick) really makes me want to have him in my mouth! He really turns me on and we have great sex in many positions, so I guess the overall vibe helps, but I've had about 30 lovers and he is the first one I ever sat around fantasizing about sucking off. The only reason I ever stop is to put it somewhere else. ;) Unfortunately, I've never been able to swallow, but I do lick his cum off his body if it lands there.
Ami - posted on 01/06/2013
I LOVE giving my husband blow jobs and he seems to like it. I just think that he feels he has to please me in return or at the same time which kind of ruins my fun of giving him a blow job, and I really wish he could give me an orgasm but it has been years since he has given me an orgasm its like he has gone brain dead and can't remember what to do with a women.
Alyssa - posted on 12/31/2012
I really like to receive oral sex because like all forms of sex IT FEELS GOOD! But giving is gross to me. I have triplets and I am 7 months pregnant so with my husbands busy life and my life as well it gets pretty hectic so we barely have time to do any sex at all (one of my daughters like to sleep with my in my room).
Kathy - posted on 10/15/2012
I got interested in giving head when I was twelve and caught my mom giving head to her boyfriend and he was huge, I hid and watched until he came in her mouth, by the way she acted he shot a huge load. The next day I had a talk with my mom and she was cool about it and gave me the facts about giving head and swallowing cum. We watched some movies together and she schooled me on the finer points. I asked her about her boyfriend; she said he was nine inches and thick with a big tip. Mom said she was ok with me watching her and we talked about all aspects of sex, it was nice to have a mom who was willing to teach me the ropes before I started having sex.
Julie - posted on 08/08/2012
love it and cannot get enough, do it on hubby nice and slow, tease a bit and yes i swallow. then his turn on me and he does it so good by this time he is hard again ready for the real thing and he lasts quite a time and i just keep cumming
Meredith - posted on 07/17/2012
I LOVE it, I love sucking cock, I can't explain excatly why but ever since I fist did it I have fallen in love with sucking.
I love recieving oral as well. but most men are not that great at licking, but fortonatly I'm bi and I know woman are better at everything..
Rosie - posted on 05/15/2010
i've always enjoyed giving it, i've been told i'm pretty good at itso i think that made me emjoy my "work", lol! i didn't really like receiving it until my husband performed his magic. everybody else actually thought that they had to actually "eat me out". he takes his time, doesn't do it too agressively and thoroughly enjoys it. in fact theres times where he asks if i'll sit on his face while he masturbates. it's nice to know that your partner loves doing that for you!
Tanya - posted on 05/14/2010
I enjoy giving and receiving.. Either at the same time or taking turns is fine with me. I do not like my husband to ejaculate in my mouth so its a foreplay thing for us, but my husband don't mind me having an orgasm while he gives.
@Erin ~ if he don't like the wetness and you doint mind him down there when your dryer can he keep a towel near by and give you a little wipe off if it becomes too most? And you can always do it just for a few mins so you can have some oral pleasure..
We do both, I didn't really like it before my husband. But I taught myself how to do it really well by listening to his reactions and breathing, and he loves it so much that I like doing it now. It's so much fun watching him squirm and then can't move afterwards. He says he hasn't ever gotten off that hard in his life, and yeah it's pretty exteme when he does. He broke our head board for our bed, and is still sometimes breaking what is left of it. The movers were like ohhh kinky when the army paid for us to move, they saw the broken peices and knew. My husband wants to get a nice sleigh bed but I told him no I don't want to pay that much money for something he will tear up. So he is now making an effort to not grip and then rip it off but he sometimes still does. Lately he only makes the wood make craking noises but I crindge every time. I like oral sex on me but not as much as he likes his blow jobs, so it just depends on what kind of mood we are in.
Ashley - posted on 05/14/2010
I love both! I don't enjoy the taste of cum, so he has only done it twice (one was on a rag). He usually gets so worked up he just wants sex, haha. I love it when he eats me out, as I have multiple orgasms, and he actually likes it.
Emma - posted on 04/16/2010
I was never a fan of giving it before i met my hubby, i think the difference with him is he dose not go on about it all the time so its always my choice to do, he really likes reviving it so i like giving it now. He also really like giving it to me and he is good lol so yes i love to receive,
ive not been so keen in the past as there is nothing worse than someone who has no skills in that department and wont take directions
Before we started having sex we started with oral...I suppose it was actually just blow jobs...THEN I enjoyed them. I suppose after having sex and being eaten out I didn't like it as much. Once we started having sex though it was always sex, oral kinda took a back burner. Unfortunately my husband does not like to give me oral, he has issues with the constant wetness :( And I got tired of giving and not receiving... plus i absolutely hate giving it until he cums and then I can't even get laid...now its either 69 or nothing!
Join Circle of Moms
Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.Join Circle of Moms