if your bi

June - posted on 12/01/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )

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so i saw this question on another boared and would be intrested how the moms here feel. do any of you think you may have influenced your kids to choose the gay lesbian or bi sexual life style? personnly i am very open i kiss hug and cuddle my girl friends in front of them. i have two kids a 4 year old daughter and a 13 year old daughter. my 13 year old is bi as well but i think she likes women more as she has only dated one guy and then all girls. when she was younger i would tell her how wonderful women are and if she chosses to experiment theres nothing wrong with that and with my four year old i explained why mommy likes girls in a way that she understood.

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Veronica - posted on 06/05/2012

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Its perfectly fine to be bi!!! I have been bi since my college days and alot of my gf's know that I am and we have been together as well!! at home, my hubby has no clue that I am bi cause he has mentioned it many times that it is completely wrong. It what i get for marrying an old fashion guy. But my son on the other hand has seen me with other woman and is perfectly happy with it too!! has even watched me from a hiding spot while i have been with other woman!!!

Sarah - posted on 06/04/2012

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@ashley
yes my eldest is very well blessed and seeign him naked at times i think OMG it hangs like a horses lol

and your hubby mmm nice size, my hubby was only 6 and half and that i thought was big. where my son gets his from i never know he dwarfs his dads erect one when he is soft!!!!

Ashley - posted on 06/03/2012

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Ur son is big hee hee, my husband is over 9.5" and I take it all in eather hole. My 13 year old is blessed but now its weird to him if I see him naked you still see yout son naked to know he's big

Sarah - posted on 04/13/2012

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i am straight and i have three boys who are all straight but there has been dicussions etc over sexuality. This came about when my eldest son was seeing a girl who happened to let out that she had been with other girls. My son seemed more distraught than if she had been with other boys. But on the question above i would support my boys if they said they were gay or bi. On a funnt front, if my eldest was gay, i would feel sorry for the boys he would go with if he was the giver!!! one blessed boy!!

Dea - posted on 03/28/2011

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eh.

I'm not bi but my kids understand that sometimes girls like girls and boys like boys. I doubt anything I say or do will influence my children either being gay or not because we believe that it's something you are born as. regardless I will love them no matter who they choose to love when they are older.

Sara - posted on 02/25/2011

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I think that as long as you are being true to yourself and proud of who you are then that is the best influence you can be for your child. It is best never to hide anything as fundamental to you own identity as your sexuality and children should be exposed to the variety available to them.

Kamillia De Caputo - posted on 12/28/2010

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I know I have influenced my daughter to be bisexual. We are very close and she knows she can ask me anything. A few years back, she told me she was attracted to one of her best friends, and she asked me if it was wrong for her to want both boys and girls. I told her that means that she's bisexual and that there was nothing wrong with that, because I was bisexual, and even if i wasn't bi, I would still support her on any decision she made concerning her sexuality.