Zacharia - posted on 07/31/2009 ( 13 moms have responded )
To make a long story short.I was living in Kansas when I got pregnant with my 2nd child, my son. The sprem donor was cheating on me with a 30 year old and the women tried to kill me over the sprem donor. So I moved to Georgia. I would talk to him every once in a while meanwhile he is not sending me anything for my son I had help from my family but anyway when my son was born he asked me if I was moving bck to Kansas cause he wanted to see his son and be there for his son. I said NO. Now my son will be one next month and the sprem donor called me last night basically talking about I need to grow up and let the past be the past. Why won't I let him be a father to his son. So my question to you is am I wrong for keeping his son from him. I look at it like this if he wouldn't have cheated then I would still be in Kansas with him. When I moved to GA he didn't help me in any kind of way but as soon as he I feel he put this on himself and if he wants to see his son so bad then he needs to make the effort to do that and not the other way around. But he also slip and told me last night that he wants us to get back together so now I feel he is trying to use my son for us to get back together which will never happen because I am engaged to a U.S Soldier and I told him that and he hung up... But what do you think I should do.