Single moms working full time and going back to school full time

Yvette - posted on 07/07/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Being a single mom, we want what's best for our family. We have to make decisions sometimes alone without anyone to help make them for us? Do you want to go back to school or maybe perhaps you never finished school and would like to go to school to make life better for you and your children? I would like to begin by saying I am a single mom of two lovely children. My daughter Teyiah is 11y/o and Xavier 9 y/o. They are my pride and joy. They keep me on my toes all of the time! I made the decision to go back to school to better my future for myself and family. I had to crawl before I could walk. I have a daughter who is hearing impaired and a son who is ADD and I am proud to say they are. It is what it is!!! Being a single mom can be a challenge. No one ask to be a single mom, in life we have unforseen circumstances that does not allow for both parents to be together. Do we blame one another or do you move on with your lives and strive for the very best! Well, I did! I moved on and in the process I returned back to school. I started from a community college receiving a two degree to a four year university. I went on to getting my Masters in Mental Health Counseling. Now, I'm back in school persuing my P.h.D. in Pscyhology! I've gotten this far through hard work and dedication. There was nothing easy about getting an education going to school full time and working full time as well!!! I had my struggles and break downs! At times, I felt like giving up, but again---my children motivates me every single day!!! My daughter constantly, asks me...."Mom did you do your homework?" My son...."Mom you look stressed out, why don't you take a short break?" You see... they keep me on my toes!! You---As a single mom, you've got to believe in your dreams, goals, and aspiration. You can do it!!! I would like to hear from some of your experiences going back to school and balance work and family at the same time!!!!!

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Barbara - posted on 09/20/2012

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Hello everyone! Im a single mother of 3 boys. I attend school full time and i just got a full time job. I have come along way just trying to make it. It is very hard because it feels like there isnt enough time to do the things i want to do like going out to eat, meeting with friends, or just seeing a movie on a friday night. My kids father is in prison for 25yrs so i really dont get much help. My mom helps but she can be a little harsh at times. I understand though. I make it through all of this because I believe in God and I have faith that there is something better for me. Stay positive and keep believing in something better nothing is impossible.

User - posted on 02/15/2012

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I'm a single Mother and work FT 8-5 and have classes 4 days a week from about 6-9:50pm. Each day is challenging because some days, my son cooperates and gets up and other days, he doesn't want to get out of bed and its a struggle to get him dressed and eat breakfast and get myself ready for work and school. I drop my son off at daycare every morning before 8am and pick him up after 5pm when I'm off. I only have just enough time to take him to my good friend who is kind to help for a few hours while I'm in class. I have a ways to go but I want to get my AA and become a Nurse.

Kea - posted on 09/28/2011

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Im going back to work & school fulltime, mother of 3. Im nervous and scared but i know it will be better for us in the end. Anyone out there with some positive comments

Yvette - posted on 08/08/2010

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I need some participation here if you would please. I need your feedback!