Tiffany - posted on 10/05/2010 ( 22 moms have responded )
I am 6 months pregnant and for that whole time my sperm donor has wanted nothing to do with me. When he found out he told me to get an abortion, that he didnt care, never made the effort to see how me or the baby was doing and so much more. Just recently he has decided to contact me through a text saying how was the baby and what I was going to name her. I then proceeded to ask why did he want to know now when he didnt care before and his reply was all that matters is that hes around now. True, but I have no idea if his intentions or good or bad, who randomly feels for 6 whole months that they want nothing to do with me or baby and then all of a sudden changes their mind. I then told him how I felt, his father had did his mother the same way, would talk negatively to her and he basically neglected them, would say he was going to be there but lied about everything. I let him know that if that is the type of father he is going to be, he might as well not be around. He despises the way his dad treated his mom, but yet he was doing the same thing to me. I do believe that people change, but I also know that a lot of people don't....what do you think?