Jennifer - posted on 02/07/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hi everyone, i would really like to get an unbiased opinion as to whether im being unfair or not?
Me and my ex partner were together for 7 years and have recently just split up. During my pregnancy he was never there, too busy being one of the boys and doing his own thing. Despite this i decided to give him a chance, i. Wanted our daughter to have a proper family. This lasted for 6 months. During these 6 months he never helped with her, still carried on doing his own plans etc. the final straw was that i had debt collectors at my door ( i had NO idea) because he had arrears with the morgage. After that i took my baby girl and left.
Anyway since then he has been taking her every sunday for a few hours. But was moaning because he hardly sees her so i have offered him every second weekend from friday to sunday. His mum watches my baby while i go to work through the week and i have also offered him those nights to spend a few hours with her before he takes her back into me. However he says im being unfair because he works on a saturday and plays football on a saturday afternoon so he will and i quote " hardly see her" ive tried explaining that i need a weekend with her as well but its making no difference. He told me he never thought he could have so much. HATRED for me ( lovely aint he) and im being selfish and using my daughter to get to him. He only started paying child support 3 weeks ago ( weve been separated 9 months)
Am i being unfair? Are there any suggestions that any of you single mommys have that i can try. All hells breaking loose and now he just doesnt communicate at all!!