Chelly - posted on 08/10/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
Sometimes I feel like I am wrong, other's I feel like I am right. During Pregnancy my child's father and I were not really getting along. Long story short I told him I was not comfortable with him being at my doctor appointments, and him being in the room with me when I give birth.
He said ended up saying I hope you have a miscarriage. Since I have spoke to it about to his mother he so far has been nice. He has been a real jerk to be in past such as cussing and swearing at me.(Facebook) He made comments in the past about his ex that simply make me worried. He use to say he wants to strangle her. He has a child with her as well. He also was on the phone with a friend of his talking about putting diesel In her car.
If it wasn't for my daughter I would have nothing to do with him. I refuse to ask him for anything, but I feel bad...my own friends bought my child stuff... born at 36 weeks, and spent two weeks in the nicu due to being under weight. I have to ask. He so far hasn't got her anything. I don't want to have to ask.
She is just over two weeks... I am letting him see her, I am doing it for her, but I don't know how often I should let him. What you all think about everything.... he's also not on the BC.